12th our house burnt down and we lost everything since then I have lost my job, my son went to Iraq, my furniture was repoed and now getting ready to get evicted. In return I will more than likely lose my child. I am tired of struggling. I have been hit with internet scams which in turn my bank closed my account. I have been everywhere looking for help to no avail. To be honest, I don’t even know what I need at this point, maybe nothing because the same cycle will start over again. I don’t even know why I am posting this, maybe just to get it off my chest because to be honest, I have no faith in people anymore. I use to. Well I guess I give up now. I have begged and pleaded to no avail. Now I believe I have done my all and can do no more. I feel my daughter will be better off without me. I don’t want this life anymore so I am ready to say good bye to it.
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Clearly, it's time for a fundamental change. It may be cheesy, but have you seen "The Secret"? It's a great tool for changing one's approach to problem solving, by changing how we view problems in the first place. You're right. Something has to change inside, or these patterns will keep repeating. I send you all my love and prayers. T
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Sorry to hear that Ltewdia, and your son is doing fine work. You should find local charities to help you, church groups like to help people even if they are not of the same faith as you.
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When you are on the bottom, there is only one way and that is up!!! There are some digital charities that might be of help.... Online Charities http://www.wishuponahero.com/ Modest Needs - assistance for really needy people http://www.modestneeds.org/ Digital Charity - free online donations Caring Bridge - for support during hospitalization http://www.digitalcharity.com/m.php?i... http://www.realitycharity.com/view_item.php?listing_id=1848
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Thank you for these sites. I have posted on them and still waiting. Thank you though...
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If you plan to pay back the money , you can ask for a loan at Prosper. People may help you. More information at http://www.acreditlibrary.com/prosper.html You can also try your luck at online charities, people may send donations. More information at http://www.laodn.org/
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I looked at your profile, this must be your job. When you lose everything and you are startiing from scratch and then you lose your job, then you live off of credit cards just trying to survive, exactly how am I to get a loan at this time and pay it back? Oh right work from home per you profile, well done that too. Scammed to many times. So again how do I get a loan that doesn't expect me to start paying next week or where you have to have a bank account for them to draft it out of?
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My Boyfriend is over in Iraq at the momement so i totally understand how your feeling and worrying about that. From what i can tell you havnt had a very easy life and to be honest i think you just need a break. Find something (Preferably Free) which you really love doing, for example, biking or walking, where you can just clear your head and enjoy the beauty that the world has to offer - right at your door. Its peacefull and you begin to feel like you are apart of the nature and things for me become a little easier to cope with. I hope that i gave you some ideas.
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Thank you and yes it is hard keeping my mind on things here when my son is there. I haven't heard from him since sept 14th and I am worried. I know he is going through a lot over there and I haven't told him what is going on here and I don't really won't to because that will cause him more stress and he doesn't need that. I pray that everyone there returns home safely. Thank you for your kind words. And yes a walk would help..
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Well you know what they say - no nesw is good news! Everyone prays that everyone will return safely to there famillys and loved ones! And i hope to God that every single man and woman who is out there serving there contry come home safely! One way i manage to deal with my boyfriend being out there is constantly reminding myslef how proud of him i am and how proud i am to be his girlfriend! Every single man and woman who serves out there is a hero!