how long does an orgasm last? does the whole thing feel good or just the orgasm? do women always get an orgasm or just sometimes? does it still feel good even if they dont? does it hurt the first time? i dont understand how there are different “positions”. i’m not some young kid asking stupid questions about sex because i want to try it soon.
most everyone by my age has had sex so far. the only reason i haven’t yet is because i’m waiting ’till i’m married.
however, i’m slightly naive on this subject and i’m just so darn curious.
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have sex when get married? what if your partner is not sexually compatible with you?
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20 second, the whole thing, just sometimes, yes it still feels good, yes it hurts the first time, and you'll understand positions as soon as you do it. The only way to understand is to do it, but my advice is read up, masturbate and learn all you can before you do if you insist on waiting. Also keep in mind that feelings and love make all these wierd, seemingly confusing things about sex disappear.
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Aahhh sex. First of all, let me say that no matter what anyone else says, I think waiting to have sex before marriage is a respectable thing to do. It's a personal choice, and no one should judge you for that. Now to the questions: 1. an orgasm typically lasts longer for a woman than a man (THANK GOD!!) my husband's actual orgasms last like 10-15 seconds. mine, however, last anywhere from one to two minutes. 2. in my opinion, the whole thing feels good...period. i don't have an orgasm every time i have sex, but that doesn't mean it doesn't always feel good. i mean orgasms are great, but i don't feel like they're necessary every time, at least not for me. 3. i kind of answered number three.... men seem to have orgasms a lot easier than women do. my husband can get his rocks off in less than a minute if need be, but i usually need at least 5-10 minutes. 4. assuming you're a guy..... yes, i think it probably almost always feels good for a guy even if the woman doesn't orgasm. i mean my husband feels kind of bad sometimes if i don't orgasm, but he still physically feels good. 5. i have never had a friend say that it hurt really bad, but some have expressed discomfort. i did not hurt my first time. 6. you can google 'sex positions' and find a ton of examples. Visit the Cosmopolitan magazine website..they have some pretty different ones! good luck... ;) ps I'm a little toasted :-D