right now i just dont know where to go or what to do. i was in a relationship for 3 years with the same man, we had a son together who will be two in February, and we found out im pregnant again about 2months ago. He had been trying to get me to get an abortion, telling me im crazy, and that i cant handle another child. we also worked together in a situation where he was my boss. when our personal issues starting bleeding over into work, things got tougher. he fired me. so i have no car, no job, and i was living in a house where things were so tense and uncomfortable that i felt like it just wasnt healthy. we fought all the time, and i didnt want our son seeing anymore of that, so i decided to leave him when things turned physical one night. my friends have let me stay with them, but the landlord says i have to leave. i have no where else to go. I have no money, and my car is broken down to the point where it needs a new engine to run again… my friends dont want to kick me out on the street, but they have no choice. the man in my life has no sympathy for any of this and tells me its my own fault for leaving, and he wont even help buy our son diapers! all i need is a little help. and god thats so hard to find for some reason. ive looked into so many options and theyre all dead ends. i dont know where else to turn…
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Thats real rough im sorry, So there are no friends or family you can stay with until you get back on your feet ?
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I am so sorry for u. can u find a job at some grocery store?
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thnx 4 ur help...its nice to hear that smeone is hearing you. when i read ur problem i realized ur problem is much bigger then mine. actually i donnot belong to ur society n religion so dont understand how to help you or what to suggest you..one thing i can say is you should not give up like that if that man ruined your life you should make him pay 4 that its not only ur child.take care honey. i ll pry 4 u
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shelter...hit him up for child support
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okay.. if i had a way to get to a job id be set. but theres no public transportation here. and i live about 15mi from ANYWHERE. child support is gonna take up to 6mo to get anything. all of my family is in oklahoma, and i dont even have the money to get there... its like every way i turn theres a huge road block
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perhaps asking your family to send money to get you there? child support better start that now just because you should regardless
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also... as bad as it sounds, i pretty much alienated all of my friends due to this great relationship i was in... so theres really no one left. i called housing authority and theres no shelters open currently. i tried to get my mom to send me money, and i even asked her to come down here and help me drive back up there. oklahoma's a low-economy state, and they dont have the money to help either. theres always something it seems. p.s. child support is in the works
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There is a bus system, even if you have to share ride to get to the bus stop http://www.ocalafl.org/suntran.aspx?id=264 http://ocala.craigslist.org/rid/ There is a long list of shelters on this link for Marion County Florida. http://www.mcchildrensalliance.com/directory.html someone must have an opening You need to contact the police about domestic violence, it will give you standing when you file for divorce... Now...You could try to get the guy into counseling with you to learn to work together, but it does not seem like you want to take that route. Keep on that phone, you will find a safe place to stay.
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Hey, Sorry to hear about it. But check this out: Isaiah 26:4 "Trust the Lord always. Trust the Lord for he is our Rock forever."
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hello hunnie if you need help or someone to talk to feel free to email me katie smithh @ hotmail . com {thats all together]