Is it possable to trust your spouce again after they cheat? And how do you trust someone who would cheat when you have given them everything and asked nothing but love?
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everybody makes mistakes..So , yes it is possible to trust again. However, you have to find the reason behind and fix it. Was it because you did not give a lot of time? Was it be must out of boredom? Just be honest with each other
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The issue here isn’t weather or not you can trust her, For some reason she has decided that your bond of trust was no longer a valid part of your marriage. If you want her to trust in you be honest with yourself. And listen to what you’re saying. No one is that selfless. Personally I claimed this too at one time, while sneaking off after work for breakfast with friends. Are you so sure that you are so squeaky clean that you should be judging her. No I'm not implying you were ever cheating on her, at least not with another woman, but when the affection gets left behind you tend to look for it elsewhere, as so did she. Incidentally, I nearly ruined my marriage this way, I even had a girlfriend for a while (NOT SMART). Maybe you should go over this issue with her and ask her what you did that was so terrible that she felt she had to breach your trust in this way. You have to start talking again and it will take some time, but you need to rebuild the trust you once had. That takes communication Forgiveness is just that. And you should forgive her. But this is one of those situations you can't forget.
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wow.... such and excellent reply AGC :) If I might add... "forgiveness is just that. And you should forgive her"... (and make sure you forgive yourself too)... just don't forget (anything) Bright blessings~ Richard ps have you ever house broke a puppy? they do awful things to a house... yet we always seem to trust them back into the house. We let puppies grow... but our life partners ... regarding their growth...we can't seem to trust.
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I like what everyone has already said. We all make mistakes and it is possible to forgive and trust again but it is something that has to be worked at. It just doen't happen and you can't force it. Communication is a major key in anything, I believe. My hope is you will be able to renew your relationship with forgiveness and trust. *hugs*
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That's a hard one. It's going be hard and take a long time to trust again. But he should know what he did was wrong and needs to face the consecuenses, you guys should talk to a councelor and build that trust if you guys can.