since i am as yet unable to talk to anyone for real, i thought i’d try this. we knew my dad was sick. he had cancer. when complications from chemo gave him a heart attack, mom called and said i’d better come home. i wanted to be there for her as we all thought dad’s time was probably pretty short. since losing my only brother 8 years ago, i knew she didnt need to be left alone there with only her thoughts. i was glad to do it. that was in feb. what we didnt know is that my mom was sicker. she had had cancer for so long it had spread throuout her body. she died in may. my dad died in aug. now im here alone with only my thoughts, and its killing me. i cant stand it.
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wow, bp, that is tough. i have no idea what to say to you, exept offer my condolences and a *hug*. perhaps try seeing a grief counsellor. you should definetely talk about this, let off some steam. but DON'T think you are alone, we are all here for you. anytime :)
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oh my gosh i just want to hug you did you at least get the chance to say goodbye to both of them . Moms have a way of protecting you she prob just wanted to make sure your dad was taken care of and you gave that to her
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i think this forum is a bad thing for your problem, you should talk with people in real life not on forum. try this.
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Although I agree that you should talk to someone, I also really feel terrible for you. That is something no one should have to experience, and I am so sorry you did. *cyber-hug*
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Let me know if you need to talk anytime, I know there are many people who would be happy to help you through this. I am so sorry for your losses. You must be one of the strongest people to handle grief as you do. Do you have friends offline you can talk to about all this?
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tell yu I will send you some love if you can return some to me as I am needing it tonight.
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thank you to all. i agree i will need to handle this with someone personally. i just have to wait until i am able to leave the house. just not yet. i agree with you, nee770.
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I can relate my mom died of cancer while I was in one hospital and she was in another then 9 months later my dad of heart attack so I can relate to your feelings to this day I still miss my mom and I wake up night calling for her and that was several years ago they say time heal all wounds maybe but you never forget