first i met this girl in a chat room, and it was normal chatin every day when we r bored just to spend time ,and we stayd that way for more than 4 months untill she started to to tell me that she loves me,first i ignored it and told her its not good thing and all ,coz we both are in different countries and i just ignored it and kept chating to her untill i falled in love with her as well .
that time i was about to finish from my high school and go to university ,
so i passed high school and i didnt know what to do i loved her so much so i decided to go to the country she lives in and study there so i get to see her , and i told her that iam coming and she was so happy she couldnt wait for me to come .
well i spent most of the time tryin to convince my parents untill they agreed.
yh so i went there and as soon as i got there i called her up and she was so happy that i came and told me to come and meet her the second day , i couldnt belive it that at last am gonna see her face and ill be close to her because thats what i wanted all this 8 months i knew her,my heart was jumping inside i just couldnt belive it i was so nervouse…
well i walked into a cafe i saw her sitting there n she waved for me and i went to her, i was surprised she didnt give me a hug or anything she was like just sit here and i sate next to her and was talkin to her ,then a guy came in and he sit infront of her and started to talk to her ,i didnt hear what they are talking about , and dont know what happend he got pissed off and went out , i asked the girl who is that guy she was like no one i said what no one who is he ???? she said hes my boyfriend.
i didnt belive what my ears are hearing …how could it be i came all this way for here left my family my friends and every thing just for her how can she do this to me , i just couldnt realize it , i didnt know what to do i walked out side didnt say anything just stood up and went out she was calling me i ignored her and walked out i was totally shocked ,i went to my room and kept thinking and thinking i couldnt not to cry, so i cried and cried i decided to not to talk to her at all and just ignore her and try to forget what just happend to me but she kept calling me i didnt want to cancel the call couldnt be rude to her so i answerd and she started to beg me not to get pissed at her and not to leave her and be her friend i didnt know what to say so i agreed.
annd so on ive still her friend and we talk on the phone and meet sometimes but she is still with that guy she knows tha i love her but she just dont say anything about it , i hate to see her with that guy it just pisses me off i feel like killing him it hurts me so much,every time she haves a problem with him she comes to me and start dissing him and telling me she brokeup with him and she loves me alot and she always did ,then i feel like at last my love came back to me i get so happy and all feels my life gone different,but then they get back together and she totally changes never mention love to me …
iam in this same situation for more than 10 months now and i dont know what to do please someone help me what should i do i still love her so much and i cant leave her now iam still hopin she will come back to me and that thing is never happening iam living in pain all this time and that guy seems never to ****** off
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Have you told her how much it hurts you? If not, maybe try that. If still nothing comes of it, then why not go home? Friends and family should always come first, especially when the girl is not yours. Go out more, meet more people, join other chat rooms, try and find someone else to take your mind off her. :)
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You must be pretty desperate because you put all this effort in her and gave up so much for her and then it turned out that she has a boyfriend and isn't interested. Instead of a romance the girl of your dreams is only using. She tells you about her problems with her boyfriend and raises your hopes . The relationship to her is not very healthy for you. even though it's sad it's very unlikely that she will come back to you! you really should try to forget her...time heals all wounds!
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i dont know i wish i never did such stupid thing but love blinds someone....
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Oh Crap... I didn't know it had been 10 months :S Yea, I got to admit, it must be hard for you. But we are all here when you need to write and be heard. Like I said it takes time... DOn't give up just yet, because when you don't expect it, you'll start getting over her :)
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i think am already getting over it with the help of u guys and bianka ur reall helpfull :) thnx alot
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Well you're most welcome. It's my pleasure :) I'm happy to hear you're getting over it :D
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helppppppppp i decided not to talk to her that much and all,and now she calls and tell me that i changed and iam treating her rude ,and i got bare attitude .shes makin me feel guilty wa should i do ?? am i doing somthing rude and bad ??
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I would tell her to leave you alone, because you can't get over her with her calling you all the time. She is the one who should be thinking about her behavior and you're not doing anything bad. You're just not letting her play her little games with you...I hope! stay strong!
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tell her if u really love me then leave that guy and be with me. ask her u think this is a movie a dream ? everything goes her way? hah ask her to give it up . do u now how selfish it is , ye true love its selfish BUT are u really SURE she love you? or shes just using you as a spare? cool down and think carefully pal, love blinds ,yes but wat the point on holding on to something u are quite sure and obvious its pointless. u haven done and proved enough u love her. and IF she loves u its time for HER to proof.
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err.. typo error its u have done enough and proved enough u love her, and if she loves u ,its time for her to proof it
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yeah ur right,thnx alot . thats why it pisses me off ,because i think like what the hell is she using me as a spare,that y i decided not to talk to her and all. ill say my last words to her just like the things ur saying, and if i dont like the answer then i guess ill go in my way and she goes her way
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ye pal, im a very emotional person and i always got involved in complex relations but ive learn some time we have to face reality,,......