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K it's still there guys. Really, a little help?
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You make the choice to not let it get you down. Why would you even fathom letting lonliness take you down and kick you? Pull your gut in and take on life.
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Yeeeah, I did that for a bit. Been a few years though and I'm kinda looking for a better long-term solution. I was thinking of naming my left foot Babooto and maybe buy him some clothes or something. Thoughts?
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I'd like to give you some advise but the "dark all embracing loneliness" your talking about consumed me a long time ago and still trying to figure out how to get out've it. just a big black hole thats never ending try all you will to get out of it but it just gets bigger the closer you get to the end to!
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Soooo, kill myself? I mean, it's not really my style though.. any other ideas?
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no don't kill yourself!!!!! although i think about it every single day i wouldn't kill myself don't have the guts to do it. You just need to get yourself out there get a hobby make new friends - I know easier said then done - I did say it consumed me a long time ago - I DONT PRACTICE WHAT I PREACH unfortunately if i did i wouldn't have found this website and i wouldnt be sitting in on a saturday night surfing the web!!
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Oh but that's the thing: I have a billion hobbies, and am as outgoing as they come. The fellas/os at my school just aren't my types, that's all. And it's hard meeting people in other places.
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your in school! exactly how old are you?? (hope thats not too personal)
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Oh I'll be 18 in about a week.
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I have one answer for everything.. and it is Jesus.... Have you ever thought about inviting him into your heart?? He can make all things brand new.... He can fill the void, and give your life purpose and meaning... he is a friend that sticks closer than a brother....
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there should be a good church somewhere near that you could get involved in... and never be lonely again....
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Worrying is a bad habit, you need to overcome it like any other bad habit. Try to modify the factors under your control, that is the only thing you can do. From http://mshn.org/worry.html
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...He can fill the void... Bow-chica-bow-wow!
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what i wouldn't give to be 18 again.very important advice I would give you is listen to people who are older than you. Whether they're 40,50 0r 60 (im 30 by the way) the human race hasn't evolved that much what they went through when they were your age is still the same! in hindsight i wish i listened to them - wouldn't be in the situation im in now if i had've. Lifes a ***** you just have to live with it and you're just starting to learn that. You're becoming an adult. I remember when i was 16 i just wanted to be 18 so i didn't have to do what my ma was telling me to do then i wanted to be 21 next thing i knew i was 30 and wishing i was 16 again. Being an adult is no fun. All i can say is live in the now try to fix whats wrong and enjoy your life don't wish it away. You say you have a lot of hobbies maybe they're not the right ones for you!! Sit down think about what exactly it is that interests you and do it don't worry about how it affects everyone else at the end of the day its your life and they'll get used it. Trust me people do things to suit themselves and being a person who does things to suit everyone else gets you no where and being like that ends up in this situation.
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No no, I think you misunderstand me. I never ever want to grow up. That sounds terrible. Being old really sounds like the most miserable thing imaginable. Also, my hobbies are fine and I love them. It's people i hate, really.
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...He can fill the void... Bow-chica-bow-wow! Wow.. that is a strange reply... Did I hit a nerve, or what???
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Why do you hate people? It would be a pretty lonely place for sure, with no one around...
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yeah i hate everyone to. But you know what i bet the people you hate dont sit around all day saying oh she hates me they get on with their lives and don't give you a second thought. so what you need to do is go alright i hate you you bastard and avoid that person/s forget about them and get on with it. As i said don't waste your life away.that hate will consume and take over your life and it will be for nothing!
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I get my homework done, I keep my hobbies up - I'm an active person. It's not something that consumes my life in that way; it just physically hurts. All I have to do is wait until college, when people won't suck. That's the challenge.
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I have one answer for everything.. and it is Jesus.... Have you ever thought about inviting him into your heart?? He can make all things brand new.... He can fill the void, and give your life purpose and meaning... he is a friend that sticks closer than a brother.... Oh, and I'm an atheist.
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Ok, I understand... He's available, if you ever change your mind... All you have to do is to call out... He will hear you...... and the darkness will turn to light.....