for too long.
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I have read your other post and I think you need a to get a little:) not a girlfriend. You have plenty of time to find a girlfriend and get serious later. Just enjoy your life in school for now, after you graduate then you can get serious about life and girls. You have the whole world out there to grab a hold of. Enjoy life now.
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Go get one
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soon youll be married with three kids a mortgage two dogs a hamster and fourteen tropical fish then dream of being single again
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^Nice.
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are you failing school because you do not have a girlfriend?
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How is a girlfriend gonna help you pass school?
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look for a best friend then youll have found someone to love but enjoy your youth please
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yes i have been mental for 8 yrs but sometimes its still good
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My previous post was to joycepau sorry...
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well mine found me actually sorry
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Well, erm...lemme see what I can say here. I want to help, but I'm afraid I won't be able to. If you really think you need a girlfriend to be happy, you could start by making girls your friends. Just introduce yourself and be friendly, talk for a bit...you'll have a friend to take your mind off not having a mate. And who knows, she may be your mate someday. :) Hope this helped, at least a little bit!
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WE all need and want things and with time, it all comes to us. Remember you DON'T NEED anything in life, you WANT everything!! Good Luck
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This one is ALL in your head
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if you're not complete w/out a g/f, you'll never be complete with one. if you think relationship = automatic happiness/success, you're dreaming. the reason love is so important (As opposed to finding any girl to date) is b/c a strong, lasting, quality relationship takes work b/c There Will be issues which you, as a couple, have to contend w/. issues above and beyond not keeping an A- average on your high school transcripts. so it's all about finding a person who makes the struggles worth it. and there's no magic recipe or 'rule' for that. f.y.i.
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That was alot nicer thatn what I was about to say shadylane.
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You asked for it do you really want to hear what I think?
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You blaming your problems on NOT having a girlfriend.. If i blamed all my problems because i didn't have a boyfriend we would be screwed.. It's all in your head that you would be successful with one. Your blaming this all on not having a girlfriend, you need to step up to reality my friend! You WANT a girlfriend so you don't feel lonely, not because you NEED one to be successful...
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I don't, and i'm glad.. your rude and need to grow up...
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I think you are a spoilt little brat that is going to throw a tempertantrum just because you can not get a girlfreind. And we can not give you the answer that you want like a little 5 year old. That is how you are comming accross to me.
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there is no right answers there is just our life experances that we are trying to give you.
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If you don't like the answers, why do you keep posting it on here?
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I think you are a spoilt little brat that is going to throw a tempertantrum just because you can not get a girlfreind. And we can not give you the answer that you want like a little 5 year old. That is how you are comming accross to me. well said my friend, Glad you said and i didn't have to say it even though i was getting to the point where I was going to say something like that. well said!!
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^^ i 2nd that
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Soda_rocket, I understand that you're upset, but you could be a little more appreciative to those who are trying to help you. =\ And I'm very sorry you've been single, but is there someone that you like in particular? This could be a deciding factor here.
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Soda_rocket You can say whatever to me, they just words i most likely wont take offense to it. You need to get it out of your head that you NEED a girlfriend when in reality you don't!! If you don't like what people are saying to you here, don't come here, it's that easy!!
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6 mos is nothing. the fact is there's no greater turn-off than s/one who's desperate to be in a relationship. and it doesn't sound like you're hiding it well if you're coming across as 'emotionally crushed.' the fact is no one is criticizing your life problems, they're criticizing your attitude towards your problems and us. the main thing, there's a lot of displaced blame going on -- there's no way your grades are suffering b/c you're single. there's a lot of wisdom here, and you should take some heed. i suspect most of us have already been through what you're feeling. and chances are you will in your life again. funny isn't it- in a few years, you'll probably recognize this feeling.
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How long is too long for being single? ._. If you want happiness then grab a friend and have fun. Then proceed with that equation of yours...
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Okay, just making sure then. Sorry 'boot that. ;) Anyway, I agree with Maximumthelov. Grab a friend and have fun. Forget about girlfriends---with just plain ol' friends, you can have the love and laughter without the commitment and pain. ^_^
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i cant keep track of this and im a girl sorry if i missed anything
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dont cry darlin
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This isn't a dating site. ._.
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id like a penpal if that would do
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Myspace huh? That's amusing.
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Hay don't leave yet. I am sorry I blowed up at you like that.
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Soda_rocket: A girlfriend isn't going to fulfill it until you love yourself!
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We can't help you find a g/f here but you can find lot of friends here.
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how old are you soda
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friend?
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Yeah, I second that question, joyce.
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i think youre a sad pensioner looking for a sypathy vote
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...sounds about right.
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youre depressin me now
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i think youre a sad pensioner looking for a sypathy vote Wow big word! I like that one!
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im 31 and married
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44 and married with 6, kids 8 grandkids
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hey pam thats some family
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oh the youth is done gone from us:)
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16 and happy with my girlfriend... and a heterosexual male on top of that.
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i'm 20 and single(loving it)!!
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cool! Max! and you too Jm keep having fun while you can
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well its getting brighter for some
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so true
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Is he just trying to be funny now? ._x
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aw- soda, i feel for you. but dwelling on your loneliness and then throwing yourself, or alternately, attacking other people isn't really going to make you feel any better. the fact is- you got to work on not being desperate. and from yrs of experience - and also experience gleaned from observing male and female friends and their problems - i can tell you, you already got the answer to your problem. and by answer i mean, the Real answer, which addresses the Root issue - you need to Distract yourself. find an interest outside of your loneliness and need for companionship. you're not going to attract anyone of any quality, if you don't work on yourself as a person. it's like i said b/c - desperation is the ultimate turnoff. and, as you've shown, you'll probably end up loathing whoever ends up wanting you in such a desperate state anyways. s/one asked how long is too long to be single. i don't have an answer for that. but i know what isn't long enough. if s/one is still affected from baggage from their last relationship- then, in my opinion and experience, they need to be single until they're not. otherwise, you'll probably end up in a rebound. you didn't specify why you were lonely. is it b/c you can't get any girl interested or is it b/c you're missing the interest of One girl?
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it is never to late
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cool! Max! and you too Jm keep having fun while you can i plan on that thank you.. congrats! on your family... I have 5 brothers(they all married or have kids i have seen what they have gone through, don't wnat that yet)!!!
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LOL smart one there
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If it's a matter of getting a girl or having trouble asking out a girl(I mean in real life. No one has any qualms about being out of the norm online...) then -maybe- I could help you there......
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ok soda why is it to late?
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While you think of a way around the question? LOL.
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OK
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just call me pam it is easier
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Wait. You live in Utah. How are you single?!?!??! (Ah, my sarcasm hurt my soul)
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Soda, seems like you have some great friends on here!
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Soda, seems like you got some great friends here!!
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np. i'm glad you're feeling a little better, soda. you just needed a vent - now plan to go out and Do s/thing. who knows, you might find the girl of your dreams on your next outing and then you'll be posting us about how you're obsessing about her and you'll ask us how to get her attention and not make her hate you : P
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really! if we wasn't we would have been all gone by now:)
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np. i'm glad you're feeling a little better, soda. you just needed a vent - now plan to go out and Do s/thing. who knows, you might find the girl of your dreams on your next outing and then you'll be posting us about how you're obsessing about her and you'll ask us how to get her attention and not make her hate you : P Kinda reminds me of Densha Otoko. He probably will if he sticks around and doesn't abandon this site for a dating site.
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I think almost everyone here is married aren't they?
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Not me.
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I think we all here have been in this spot of wanting someone to love us.
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Not me. taken right?
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Thank you so much, all of you are the greatest. AH he does have a heart! Yay us!! Even though the thanks isn't to me..
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np. i'm glad you're feeling a little better, soda. you just needed a vent - now plan to go out and Do s/thing. who knows, you might find the girl of your dreams on your next outing and then you'll be posting us about how you're obsessing about her and you'll ask us how to get her attention and not make her hate you : P Kinda reminds me of Densha Otoko. He probably will if he sticks around and doesn't abandon this site for a dating site. rotfl - b/c it's true!
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Awww, I'm glad you're feeling better, Soda. :) Well, is there a specific girl you have your heart set on, or are you just looking for somebody to love?
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I know it has been a rough night for you Soda but why don't you take a look around here and see all the freinds that you can have, that they do has something in common with you. Start with friends first and then the girlfriends will come to you in time. I know you hate that word "in time" LOL Really we are a good lot of people that truly care and want to help:)
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Not me. taken right? Indeed. kた!!!!!!!!!
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Hay max what dose your siginature mean? if it is ok that i ask :)
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not sig but that at the bottem that you have written
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Thank you so much, all of you are the greatest. np, soda. i'm bored; take abuse; answer questions - it's what we all come on here to do! :P
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kta? Just a reference to Densha Otoko. A series/manga etc. about a guy that defends a girl on a train from a drunk and gets her number. Then he continues on to post on an open forum where he gets dating advice and the like. Haha. It's like the catchphrase or something all the posters shouted whenever something exciting happened.
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it is cool and thanks for sharing it i will b sure to check it out :)
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Hay soda you still here?
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He took to e-harmony. lulz.
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Hmm, looks like this has been solved. Oh well, I'm 17 and I've never had a gf, it hurts and I wish I had someone to do things with but I still have to realize that I'm not the only person without companionship. I'm tired of being alone too but things aren't going to change for me unless I do something about it.
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You dont sound like someone I would want to date, you sound so needy!
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AUGH!! People like you ::sigh:: and yet you wouldnt go out with a tranny girl, or a black girl, or a blind girl, or what else? I can feel the ignorance floating from your statement perhaps try asking someone you like out??? is that like an option? if not find a nice one on myspace. agreed... they are generic and just what your probably looking for, run of the mill generic females...
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BTW I think needy is awesome... LMAO! but Im sick...
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That's a lame excuse to get one...
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There are good points that everyone posted, so I will say Take Care Cya
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hiya, i know what u mean. the thng is im scared to have another bf/gf because my heart was broken 1 to many times and idk if i can live with that depression again. but anywhoo...how old r u?
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Whoah That suckss.. How old are you? Lol. =]