I finally had become my ideal self,
and then it was gone
I was so close with god
and then i got a boyfriend
who is lieing, and mean, and abusive mentally, and verbally.
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Any Advice
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Leave your boyfriend and avoid him, you shouldn't be with someone who is like that. You just have to try and move on, if the thoughts keep playing through your mind you might want to try something like counselling.
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How can i start single again i was so fine before without him why did i go back to him, i understand why!!
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You just have to remember how much better you felt before him and remember that it can be good to be single. Some times people can control your feelings and make you go back to someone however much you don't actually want to be with them.
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yes........GET AWAY NOW..............im serious.. it will never change.. im a domestic violence survivor of a 10 year marriage... no matter how many sorrys .. no matter how many i love yous.. no matter how many promises he makes.. IT WILL NEVER END!!!!!!!! not only for your safety.. but your sanity.. GET OUT NOW!!!!!!
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Thanks guys It's crazy cuz at school i've been in health studying domestc and relationship violence n it all makes sense now. God was trying to show me but i wasnt listening. Ohh but I dont know if i really dont wanna be with him, i mean at first he was super nice, and now he's changed I dated him 4 years ago and he was a total ***, and like he was my first and i finally got outta the relationship but, i dont wanna lose him again is it just because I'm stuck on how he changed how i'm viewing things and just agreeing with him so we dont fight, is it finally set into place like he wanted
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LET ME JUST SAY.... THEY ARE ALWAYS NICE IN THE BEGINING... THAT IS A CONTROL THING.. THEY WANT YOU TO TRUST THEM.. THEY WANT YOU TO FALL IN LOVE THEN THE BEAST COMES OUT....
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ONCE AN ABUSER ALWAYS AN ABUSER!!!! MY EXHUSBAND WHO BEAT ME FOR TEN YEARS... HAS BEEN WITH HIS NEW GIRLFRIEND FOR ABOUT 2 YEARS NOW. ONCE HE REALIZED THAT SHE WAS HIS.... HE STARTED IN ON HER AS WELL... SHE IS ALWAYS GRIPING TO HER FRIENDS HOW HE IS CONTROLING AND STUFF.... IT WILL NEVER CHANGE.. NO MATTER HOW GOOD HE SEEMS AT THAT MOMENT.. ONCE AN ABUSER... EITHER PHYSICAL OR MENTAL.. IT WILL NEVER CHANGE!!
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I agree with that my ex was like really controlling but when I figured out that was how he was being I left. For you own well being you are best leaving him and moving on. It doesn't matter if you have feelings for him if he is being abusive and not treating you well don't be with him. Don't think he is going to change to the way he was when you first met him because he won't
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i just dont kno if i can say its over
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i have to tell him
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BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. YOU HAVE TO BE STRONG.... STRONGER MENTALLY THAN HE IS... THIS IS A BAD SITUATION.. AND PLEASE BELIEVE ME WHEN I TELL YOU.. IT WILL NEVER CHANGE... PLEASE THINK OF YOURSELF... OF YOUR SAFETY... OF YOUR MENTAL STABILITY.. BECAUSE IF THIS GOES ON... YOU WILL LOSE NOT ONLY ALL OF THIS.. YOU WILL LOSE YOUR SELF ESTEEME.... YOU WILL LOSE ALL YOUR SENSES ABOUT LIFE AND BECOME A PUPPET IN THE CORNER.. PLEASE TRUST ME WHEN I TELL YOU THIS... I HAVE LIVED IT... I WAS JUST A LUCKY ONE THAT WAS ABLE TO GET OUT ALIVE... SOME PEOPLE DONT.. AND LOSE THEIR LIVES
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but we have those few good moments
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LISTEN.. EVERYTIME MY HUSBAND BEAT ME.. OR CHEATED ON ME.. OR PUT ME DOWN TO THE POINT OF WHERE I WAS READY TO DO SOMETHING TRAGIC.. HE WOULD BE THE SWEETEST MAN I HAVE EVER SEEN.. I WOULD GET FLOWERS.. I WOULD GET DIAMONDS.. I WOULD GET DINNER MADE FOR ME... A BACK RUB.. TONS OF SORRIES... BUT THAT WAS TO SURPASS WHAT HAD JUST HAPPENED.... THEN ONCE I WAS OVER IT AND BELIEVED HIS SORRYS.. IT STARTED ALLLLLLLL OVER AGAIN.... IT IS A CONSTANT SENARIO.. IT WILL NEVER END.. ONLY GETTING WORSE THROUGH OUT THE YEARS
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i'll break up with him! thank you for ur help, n kind words
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PLEASE.. KNOW THAT I AM NOT HERE TO REPREMAND YOU... IM JUST TELLING YOU THE TRUTH.. IM TELLING YOU ABOUT A STORY THAT WILL NEVER END UP AS A FAIRY TALE... NO MATTER HOW MANY PROMISES OR SORRYS... IT IS ALL TO JUST GET BY THE MOMENT... I HAVE REALLY LIVED THIS LIFE AND WITH ALL THE BRUISES AND BROKEN BONES... IT GOT TO A POINT IN LIFE TO WHERE I WAS AFRAID TO LEAVE..... IM JUST TRYING TO HELP.. PLEASE KNOW THAT
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i know and thank you!!
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it might not be what you want to hear but you shud stear clear of the abusive boyfriend and get your life that you loved so much back on track.
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Dump you boyfriend
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I did finally
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Glad to hear that =].
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Thanks hows College
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It's alright, I'm coping just about... although for the most part it is really boring.
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im happy to hear that you dumped him. you are better off because it would only get worse... so congrats. good luck in life and always remember... control from a man is no good.. we are all equal.. and a relationship is 50/50... hugs.