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I think you need to step back from both of them and decide which one you would rather be with. If your feelings are confused then you might end up making the wrong decision. Just take a lot of time to think about it at the end of the day it has to be your decision and no one elses, because only then will you feel like you made the right choice.
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I'd personally chill with the new guy... like you said he's "too late". But then again all's fair in love and war.
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hmmm.. ok...this is easy yet hard in the same time it depends how u see things lady.. commitment or let your feelings run free... but having the thoughts of anyother guy its already unfair to your boyfriend. but again emotion is something we cant control... if u give this to me i will think of this. how sure are your feelings towards this guy? and how sure is his feelings to you? are u willing to give your boyfriend up because of him . its risking and uncertain and u might end up losing both but remember love is selfish.. hurting someone is a definate,,, so measure and ask yourself . is your feelings so strong for him u are welling to give up everything to be with him, if yes just make sure u have no regrets and u must face watever consequenses tat comes with it.. everything is one for one in this world.. but if u think staying the way now is best then make clear to him and stays with your commitment.. if not it will only cause more damage to either party... but dun ever two times... this is reality , sometime we might sink into an illusion like a movie but trust me the ending wont be like one so think carefully to follow your feelings or be content with wat u have now.... things is always like this.. its never enough. so judge yourself lady.... at least u are far better of then me.. i have nothing..haha...