Its been about a month now. But let me tell you about what went on in our relationship. I have known this girl and her family for a very long time. I have been very close friends with them also, I would do anything for them. Just like my family, I even call her mother mom. Well her mom and sister have always told me that she has liked me. That has been about 7 years or so. I would never say anything to her because I didnt know if it was really true. Or if it was there way of getting me to ask her out. Well I finally did and we started dating. She was very happy and I was too. Her mother and sister told me that she would always have a smile on her face when I would call or text her. I sent her flowers to her job one day to make her feel special. She has never had anybody do that and was really excited. Everytime I was over at her house she would always cuddle up with me and kiss me. Remember we have been friend for a long time and that never happed as friends. Well about a month ago I get a text message saying that she no longer has feelings for me and that she was done with it. It blew me out of the water along with her friends, and family. I love this girl to death. So I went to her house one morning to talk to her face to face before she went to work because she wouldnt answer any of my text messages. I told her how much I love her and she would not respond. I asked her why and she told me that she was not wanting to get hurt. I explained to her that would never happen with me because I care for her more that I do about my self. I would give her the world if she asked me. Well I have not herd anything from her untill a few days ago. She started sending me text messages like she did before we started dating. Just funny text messages nothing to do about our relationship or anything, just funny stuff. Well she sends them early in the morning before I am even awake and she knows what time I get up because she would never send me anything while we where dating. She has done this the past few mornings. Granted I dont mind her sending me anything because I would do anything for her even if it means getting up early to look at a message. But I guess what I am trying to figure out is why does she send them so early. If she has no feelings for me then why is the first thing she does it text me with this stuff. And maybe it is me just reading every little detail from this but I dont know. I want to send a message back to try and talk to her but I dont want to loose waking up to a message from her. She is all I can think about, I know I love her. But if there is anybody out there with a little advice to this situation I would really like to hear what you think about all of this. Thanks
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Honey I'm so sorry this is happening to you. It sounds like maybe it happened kinda fast and threw her off a bit. Giver her some time and some pace to let her figure things out. When you're friends with someone for a long time and then become more than friends it can be weird and confusing at first. Hopefully she'll come around soon. Just let her know you're there for her and you love her and you'll give her the space she needs until she is ready.
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When you went to her house did you get any where? I'm sorry your going through this. I'm a big fan of texting, but when it comes to someone telling me there feelings towards me, I don't want to read it, I want to hear it!! Maybe you should try and call her and express yourself to her!! Good Luck and sounds like this girl was lucky to have a guy like you in her life.
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I have told her how I feel. That was when I went to her house. She would not respond she just looked like she was wanting to cry.
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:( I'm sorry honey. I wish I had more answers for you. but until she's willing to talk to you, you're just going to have to let her have some time.
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WELL MAN MY GIRLFRIEND IS ALSO A BIG FAN OF TXTING. SHE JUST GOT HER FONE. ALL SHE DOES IS TEXT EVERYDAY. I FEEL LIKE SHE DON'T CARE ABOUT "US" ANYMORE. I FEEL LIKE CRAP WHEN SHE IGNORES ME. SHE TTELLS ME SHE LOVES ME BUT I THNK ITS NOT TRUE. IT SUCKS MAN.
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I THINK YOUR A ***.......LIFE GOES ON! LOOK AT IT THIS WAY. SHE IS ANOTHER CHICK UNDER THE OLD BELT.