We have this bond that is beyond compare, I count him to be one of my closest friends. Unfortunately, I am only eighteen and he is twenty six, and happens to be a professor of mine. Now don’t get the wrong impression of me, I understand he is quite a bit older and fully accept the fact that he is my prof, but is it alright for me to be so infatuated with him?
I love him not only as a friend I believe.
I need some advice.
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so you met when you were 13 and he was 21? Nothing about that is right no matter what you think.
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I didn't have any feelings towards him them, but then as I got older the age difference got a little less important and he started treating me like his fellow adult that I am.
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oh don't know about this one. you should never get into a relationship with a professor. besides, the whole meeting when you were 13 and he was 21 is kinda disturbing. but the age doesn't matter anymore. and well, if you have that kind of bond i understand. and y'all should be happy.
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I guess your right. The only thing I am contemplating is the fact that in less than six months I will no longer be his student, but the urge to tell him how I feel is overwhelming.
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wait. definitely wait.
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You're correct I believe. Time will tell if him and I are more than just an odd couple.
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do you think he feels the same way back? (the more-than-a-friend thing).
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He definitely does the typical male "i'm interested moves," he makes fun of me, and musses my hair. Typical little boy things that they do when girls suddenly don't have cooties. I thought it was just him being sibling-like to me, that seems to be the best way to describe our relationship, but then we started having very nice conversations about mature subjects. We really seemed to bond around Christmas of last year. During classes I was informed that my father had a heart attack. He comforted me and for the first time ever, he hugged me and cried with me ( keep in mind he a very stony man in the time of seriousness ). After our friendship changed from teacher to student, to peer to peer.
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hm. then i would tell him, when classes are out. it would endanger his career otherwise. no? and give it time. if he makes a very definite, like he kisses you, move, tell him to wait.