It’s worrying me how much I engage in sexual activities. I have even tried telling myself, ‘no sex’ and ‘calm down’ etc, but I just can’t help myself. I always feel terrible afterwards as well. I’m 19 and have had around 30 sexual partners in 4 years. I have only been in 3 relationships. Most of my sexual partners have been ‘one night stands’, a few of them I met online and didn’t even know anything about them. About 10 of them I didn’t even know their names. I get blind drunk and jump into bed with anyone, it makes me feel sexy and wanted. Like on my last holiday, in that week I slept with 4 men, had one threesome, took as many drugs as I got my hands on. One of the men was just some random who asked me what the time was when I was sitting outside a shop nearly passing out, I don’t even know how I ended up ******* him, it just happened. About a month ago I started to realise that I may have a problem, and decided to try and stop. But in the past 3 weeks, I have slept with 2 men who I have only just met, and have cammed with men nearly every night. If I don’t cum on cam then I have to carry on alone watching porn until I do. It feels like an obsession. I have always been like this, from the age of 11 I fantasised about having sex all the time. I imagined myself turning out like people on the TV, sex, drugs and rock n roll. I don’t know if thats what has made me the way I am now. I was raised well, don’t get me wrong. I can’t fault my family in the slightest. This is all my own doing, the fact that I am so easily influenced maybe… Oh god, I don’t know what to do… what do you think is wrong with me. I want to stop but I know that I’ll more than likely be riding someones cock within the next week… This is hard for me…
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30 at 19? pahlease i was way farther up than that at 19 hopefully like me it was a phase and it will pass and if you're doing it on cam i hope your at least getting paid for it
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I don't really see it as anything to be proud of Dani... Are you bragging? I'm certainly not... 30 is the round about figure I think, I wrote them all down the other day trying to figure out the exact number, I struggled to remember, but 30 is what I managed to figure out. There could be more, I'm really not sure. Lol, no I'm not getting paid for it as I don't want my face advertised on any porn sites... I'm not doing anything for the money, I'm doing it for the thrills and excitement. I've thought about becoming an escort, just for all the sex. But after thinking about it I feel sick with myself and start getting depressed. I have found this site, http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/sex_and_sexual_health/probs_sexaddiction.shtml It has some questions on there, warning signs that you are a sex addict. I answer yes to all of them. I can't afford therapy, I don't know how to stop this behavior.
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I'm 19 with somewhere around 50 partners. You haven't even hit the 'average' mark yet. I guess what I want to know is what the hell the problem is. You're getting laid a lot... what's wrong with that? Seems more like a drinking problem than a sex problem to me anyway.
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The problem, I have sex with multiple strangers a night, I'm risking my body to diseases and pregnancy, I have dangerous fetishes, and I sink into deep depression after one of my nights being a whore. I lost the love of my life due to this.
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No no i wasn't bragging I was just saying, it could be worse
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Oh right. Thanks Dani... I just don't want to get myself into any trouble, but don't know how to stop. Hmm, I don't know what the 'average mark' is in USA, but over here its around 10-15 sexual partners.
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hmm, maybe they have a sex addict anonymous meetings you could try doing others things to fill up your sex desires like knitting...keep hands occupied...i don't know hhaha um...look up sex addict online...i'm sure there's useful tips and such somewhere on the huge internet it starts with one guy....then he tells his friends and then its more..and it goes on and on...you need to break the cycle, do you even enjoy the sex when doing it?>
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I sometimes enjoy it, more often than not I like it, up until the point I cum then it's no longer that much fun. Heh, knitting, I'll bear that in mind... I've looked it up online and can't find much, just people saying get therapy - which costs!! Hmmm, I dunno, I supposed I'm just doomed to a life of wild, dangerous sex with multiple partners. ****, I'm horny now.
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Lol, just stick to masturbating
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Yeh, masturbating is fun, but theres nothing I like more than.... **** ME I'M GETTING CARRIED AWAY.
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Hmmm? (eyebrows raised, Brody's interest is peaked) If you're gonna have sex with people you don't know at least make sure to use a condom, seriously... What you're doing isn't really bad, but at least be responsible. Here ya go: I'm curious, Do you believe in love? Real love?
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Hmmm? (eyebrows raised, Brody's interest is peaked) If you're gonna have sex with people you don't know at least make sure to use a condom, seriously... What you're doing isn't really bad, but at least be responsible. Here ya go: I'm curious, Do you believe in love? Real love? Yeah, I believe in love. I was in love, until I lost him due to my 'antics'... thats why I want to stop so much, but I just don't feel like I can control myself. About the condoms... I said that I had... 'dangerous' fetishes... One of those is having cum inside me... urgh... I DON'T LIKE THIS, yet I love it so much... I just can't seem to control it!!
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said that I had... 'dangerous' fetishes... One of those is having cum inside me... Strangers cum that is...
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It sounds like you just need a really kinky boyfriend...with some "fetishes" of his own... Sometimes it's hard to fight the daily feelings of need that we both have. To reject these, would be to reject the very essence of our humanity. Playing in traffic is always fun, but it's silly to wear a blindfold. Eventually you'll get hit and you'll never see it cuming...
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Yeah Brody you are right, I just don't know how to control myself... Ha ha, guess it takes a lot of discipline. You are also right by saying that I need a kinky boyfriend. It's just finding one who can match me in the bedroom.
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So, in other words...No one has ever been a match for you, mentally or sexually. If so, I can't help but understand how you feel. I'm in the same situation... ...except I do not believe in one night stands, as I've never been really satisfied from one. I'm always left wanting...something more. You want really good sex? It takes time to learn how to best please each other. Only with the trust that comes from a real relationship can you freely express your sexual prowess, and then begin to experiment with your desires... I really miss my dirty little ex-girlfriend. :( We had a lot fun. ;)
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Everyone who does match me in bed, well, it never really progresses into anything more than just casual sex. Me and my ex used to have amazing sex too, fair enough he wasn't as filthy as me, but it was fun and I loved him very much. But early on in the relationship I cheated on him, had a threesome :( lost him a few months ago when he found out. I didn't cheat on him after that one time (is it classed as one time or two??). But the mistake was made. Since we split up I've just got back to sleeping around again. I'm seeing someone at the moment, he's pretty dirty. He doesn't know half of my fetishes - infact only one person does. But we have amazing sex, he knows a few things that really get me going, and they are pretty kinky too so I'm glad about that. And, it looks like things are progressing a bit into something more than just sex. He's changed his facebook to say 'in a relationship' anyway, and he is always telling me how much he misses me. I was meant to be meeting the one guy who does know ALL my fantasies tomorrow, but this morning I acctually executed a but of self control and text him to say it can't happen! Yay me, I'm feeling pretty proud of myself. If things do work out with this new guy, then I don't want to cheat on him at all. Yay...
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I found this, if this is helpful at all... http://www.videojug.com/interview/sexual-addiction
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Thank you hun, I will have a look :)