i wish i could be more out going, but i cant. i need help
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What are do you lack confidence in? Is it with yourself, others, tasks or just getting out and about? Have you always felt you had a problem with this?
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ug, if you cannot give sound advice then don't type at all, you cannot tell someone that drinking is the answer to their problems~
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i smoke marijuana and dont drink. that isnt my problem, cuz when i smoke, i get more outgoing and confident and dont care what people say about me. but anyways, i lack confidence with people. its not that i dont feel comfortable around/with people, but i can never think of what to say/talk about. i do have confidence in myself and what i do for the most part. i ask myself things like- why am i here on earth and what is my "job" here on earth. im 17 years old and a senior. i still dont know what im going to do after i graduate in June of 08. ive always felt nonconfident, its been getting better now, but i still feel it. the people i now hang out with have made me get more confident. if i had the choice to be either be famous with millions of dollars than to gain full confidence, i would pick the 2nd one. i think that my lack of confidence and being non outgoing, holds me down to what im capable of.
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I can really relate to not feeling confident. I have struggled with that for a really long time. I am not really sure how you can gain that but I do think that if you are around people that build you up rather than put you down it will really help.