I got hurt at work on July 9 and tore 4 tendons in my right shoulder and also tore my rotator cuff. I had surgery and my surgeon says I will be out of work until at least January. Also, my wife has RA and Lupus and isn’t doing very well. We have mountains of financial problems and I don’t know where to turn and don’t want my wife to know this. I have a little girl and Christmas isn’t looking good at all. If anyone has any suggestions please let me know. I would appreciate any help anyone can offer and prayers. I’m almost at the end of my rope. We are about to lose everything we have and I have no where to turn. Thanks and
May God Bless
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Understanding that your problem is not of any real concern, I will reply to you by saying that my wife has supported me and our family while I was unable to work. Now she is disabled with Lupus and is on Chemotherapy. Sha would work if she could. Thanks for your concern anyway.
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First off you must be honest w/your wife... The "I don't want her to know.." sounds like you are trying to stage manage something, and unless you are P.T. Barnum, you may not want to try this. Be present to the situation and do not bemoan it... the answers are in front of you and quite frankly your situation mirrors the state of the us $... A wise man once said: In planning your course of action that 3 things into consideration. Think least about your passions, think more about your practicalities and Think Most about your limitations. Do not rail against them, but see what possibilities your limitations present... you can choose... there is no right or wrong or instant solution. You are most definately in the now... would have, could have, should have - should have NO PLACE in your heart seize the moment
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you know you are absolutely right. I am trying to realize that every action has an opposite reaction and I do believe that every thing does happen for a reason. It does kinda resemble the American $ in its rise and fall. Staying positive is indeed ablessing to have. I will indeed dicuss this with her. Thanks for the input
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You are in it together after all
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If you plan to pay back the money , you can ask for a loan at your credit union or Prosper. People may help you. More information at http://www.acreditlibrary.com/prosper.html and http://luccu.org You can also try your luck at online charities, people may send donations. More information at http://www.laodn.org/
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thanks, my wife and I will check this out. About your problem, are you saying that your house is not grounded ? I'm not sure I understand your problem, by the way I do know a little about Electricity... I'd like to help out if possible..