On May 21st i started going out with this kid *Mark* then on October 14th he broke up with me. Mark* is 6 months younger than me and he was still at our school’s jr. high while i was at the high school. I went over to his house 3 times before my mom made a rule that i wasn’t allowed over to his house until he came to mine. But his mom never did let him, so we waited until school started thinking it would be better.
it wasn’t better if anything it was worse. He wasn’t online as much (which is the way we talked through most) because he had homework and his mother wouldn’t let him do anything. Especially come to my house. During school i got a new friend his name is *James*. I started hanging out with him and my other friends since he lived around me and my other friends and after a while he started dating my best friend *Lynne*. People at our school started spreading rumors about us though. That i liked *James and lies like that. And that’s when *Mark broke up with me, he said it was because we never hang out or see each other and I understand and he told me that this isn’t because of *James. Then one girl had the nerve to message *Marks older half brother, *Finny*. So after a few weeks i had FINALLY settled everything. Me and Mark talked about the problem, me and Finny talked about him not beating up James and all my friends were good. But even after the problems were solved I didn’t stop talking to Finny. Who is 19 (I’m only 15). And I realize I like him. But is it okay to like him? I’m not questioning the age difference here. I’m asking that even if Mark and I hold no more feelings for each other, is it okay to like his half brother? Lynne, my friend thinks that it is perfectly fine but another one of my friends have a problem with it because she says it’s against the rules… HELP!
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Wait who is Finny james half brother? And what did the girl say when she message him?
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no mark's half brother. The girl who messaged him told him James wanted to beat Mark up (which isn't true!) so Finny got mad that someone wanted to beat up his little brother and said he was going to beat up James
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How does Mark feel about it? Does Finny live with Mark and if he does you would have the same problem?
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I haven't really said anything to Mark. We haven't talked at all since we broke up. we talked about why we broke up, and like what we were feeling but we don't talk daily. no Finny doesn't live with Mark. problem is that he lives in Mentor. i live in akron. but hs is 19 and he can drive.
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So wait just talk to him don't go to fast you will freak him out