?? theres a girl, i REALLY like her, shes like my best friend, and i already told her. she likes this other guy, that likes her to, but they cant date because he lives to far away, even though i know she doesn;t like me, i cant get over her, what should i do?
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you sould just forget about her cause she dosnt like you and she likes the guy that likes her too so just forget about her. im in that situation actually too cause i am going out with the one i love and he loves me too but their is this guy i went out with even though i didnt like him and he loves me still so u sould just forget about her because she dosnt like you.
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they can go out if they love eachother even if they live far apart. you cant say who she can or cant date. just saying that is a wrong attitude towards someone you really like. you sould be happy for her that she has someone that likes her back.
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well no i didnt say that. she told me that they ******* go out , so dont try and make me the villan here, becaus ei had nothing to do with that , this guy, he likes 3 girls, 2 that live near him, anf my best freind, they met on 4th of july because my friend was gonna tell him that HER friend thought he was hot, then BAM. but i dont know what to do, bexause whenever i habg out with her, its like watching a fat kid eat a lifetime supply of twix and not cahring with me but with the kid sitting next to me =(
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ok so he dosnt even love her? i dont get what you just said wow sry thats like confusing jees
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that anonymous was me i just said replay anomonsly so ya just saying
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im confused about what u just said i dont understand.
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yeah i know, thay act like they love each other, but the guy, i know he doesnt, hes only met her 1 time, its a bit hard to love someone when youve only met them 1 time, and i know him, they both do the same thing, they only like each other because the other person likes them
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the guy, his name is patrick , he addmitted it
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ok wow so they r dating for the hell of it? even if they dont like eachother or they do like eachother?
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see, the girl, she was emo, she cut herself, because noone gave her attention, she doesnt get along with her parents, abd where we live, theres nearly noone here
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and shes like so many other people, she only likes him because he gives her attention
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then y didnt u give her atention? then U give her atention if u want to go out with her
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the problem exactly.
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i mean if u care for her y dont u make her happy?
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the problem is that u didnt give her atention?
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i hang out with her everyday, from after school to ten at night, but shes just strange, she doesnt get it, because shes too caught up with him,
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so no, i give her nearly all my attention EVERYDAY, but ...shes just weird
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but thats exactly what i like about her, shes not like anyone else that ive ever met
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wow that is really weird. then y dont u just tell her you like her and c where that goes? and maybe say you will pay attetnion to her a lot more than that guy or something
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i did, like i said shes just weird, and her and that other guy arent even dating,
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did u ask her out?
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ok thats really weird
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shes just...wow, yeah, she didnt say anything, because i did but it was late, so i had to leave right after, the next day she said she wasnt ready yet, of course this was before she met this other guy, but right after i got her to stop cutting herself so ... yeah
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o so U made her stop cutting?
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yeah
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just because u asked her out and she said no shes not ready?
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maybe she just wants you to be their for her all the time so she wants to be ONLY friends with you so she knows that youll always be their for her? u think that might be it?
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no she was the only person undfer the age of 25 that lived out here, we live on an island, so she didnt get along with her family, or anyone else that lived here, then i came along, so suddenly she had someone to talk to, to hang out with, i was always there, so she ahad a reason to stop cuttin, she told me she was and i told her to stop, she asked why, and i told her because i care about you and i dont want you to hurt yourslef anymore,. so she stopped, and yes that might be it, but i dont really know
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i think thats it. ask her if u left her not being her friend what would she do? Id just ask her that because id like you to know whats going on with your relationship/friendship and what it means with her. So ask her today or tomorrow or soething what would happen if i wasnt ur friend tomorrow? See what happens and you can always write back to me. i really think thats whats happening but not sure yet. you can write back if anything happens and ill help you then.
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tahnks, i will
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just make sure that she knows you WONT do that ur just asking.
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no problem!! tell me what happens later!!
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i will
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thanks ttyl
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ttyl