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I think i do a good job of that for her.
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Its because society puts a much bigger emphasis on there looks so there constantly thinking about them. Think about it like this, you look in a mirror once or twice and you look pretty good. But the more you look at the mirror the more you notice thats wrong about yourself and the more self concious you get. Same works for our internal mirrors. Thats why models are some of the most insecure people =P.
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I hate it when girls fish for compliments though lol. I think confidence is one of the most attractive qualities in a lady :).
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I do, every tme i see her, for the first time that day i complement her out fit.
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She has trust issue's with other peaple (of corse she trusts me) she is very guarded
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We don't all need reassurance all the time like this. I'd say everyone, man or women, get insecure at times (some more often than others, some all the time), we just have different ways of showing it. Personally I'm confident with my body and personality and don't need anyone to compliment me to know so. I get my phases of self doubt like anyone else, but I know the only way to fix these things I don't like about myself is to change it myself rather than drive my boyfriend insane until he tells me I'm just fine..an answer which I wouldn't believe anyway, so what would be the point fishing for that compliment I don't believe? But maybe that's just me.
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No, it's just your girlfriend, dude. In fact, I'd say your constant masturbation probably has something to do with it.
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........Its not constant
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LOL. I'm just giving you a hard time, due. It's totally normal, both for you and her. The best thing you can do is to be proactive - compliment her before she starts to ask you about it. But let me be clear - it's not about *saying* that she's attractive. It's about making her *feel* that way. Compliments are nice but, as I'm sure you've discovered, their effectiveness is short lived. Be romantic and thoughtful - make her feel like she's a work of art and not the five year old centerfold in the bathroom of a men's gym. A small degree of self-consciousness is normal, but constant self-depreciation is unnecessary. If she's really going overboard, ask her what makes her feel that way and see if you can come up with a boyfriend-like solution to fix it.
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I thought you wher mad at me for that other post, I know why she is like that she has a dark past, and so do i, we comfort each other that way, not that i'm insanely insecure, like her.
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really not all girls are that way
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Dark past = assault/trauma = she needs to talk to someone. It's great that you can give her the love and support of a boyfriend, but it's really to her benefit to begin working out some of these issues and begin letting go on her own. Perhaps you could each go and make it a couple's activity?