How do you feel about ugly girls crushing on you? Like, I know this isn’t exactly normal, but if I find out that a guy I find completely unattractive is into me, it freaks me out so much. I’d rather just not know at all. But, cute guys, if you find out that a girl that you find gross looking likes you/has a crush on you/is into you, do you wish you didn’t know? Does it bother you? Or are you flattered? As long as she realized she didn’t have a chance with you and wasn’t really pushy, would you mind humoring her by saying hi to her, smiling at her, etc.? Or would it disturb you? Orrrrr make you feel cool? You see, I’m an ugly girl who has never admitted her crushes because I don’t want to freak guys out the way they sometimes freak me out (when they are ugly and into me for whatever reason) and I was wondering if I should worry less and let guys know when I like them. There’s one particular guy I’m so into right now, and I don’t want to bother him, cuz I’m pretty sure he’s not interested in me, but if he knew and acted friendly, with no expectations for a relationship or anything, that would be pretty nice anyway. I hope this question makes sense, sorry it turned out so long. Thanks for reading.
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I hate it WWAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY much.
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i can't stand it when people judge people on looks, which is why i don't ever do it. most of the time when people start mocking others about the way they appear, the mockee has something deeply ugly about them they do not ever want to share.
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I'm weird on this issue. Looks are just a bonus to me. What really matters is who they are.
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Oh so we're being serious then are we.... They're both right, if a girl is smart and can make me laugh I immediately start to have feelings for her, pretty girls are dime a dozen but smart girls are rare, apparently this is the same with men too.
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looks aren't everything you know...bonus for me too!!
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I guess what I meant is, a girl you're not into and never would be. I just used "ugly" because it's simple...but just a girl who's not your type, for reasons of looks or personality or etc.
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ugly is just so harsh..why not say not attracted to...:)
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In that case, it's flattering, but it's obviously not going to happen.
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the reason u behave like this is because you are insecure. how ur behaving has nothing to do with appearance. u have low self esteem. its similar to when a kid goes past some1 and tells them they're ugly. it has nothing to do with the way that person looks, its to do with them trying to make some1 feel bad to make them feel good about themselves. because ur insecure, it works both ways. When you do it to guys, you subconsciously think lowly about urself, it has nothing to do with them, it says more about you. because of this attitude you presume other guys think that about you when that may not be the case. it is how ur choosing to see the situation. learn to accept these guys you reject and be nice to them and your confidence may just grow. then u may find that u can get on with the guys you are attracted too easier because then ud feel more good about yourself.
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i hate to say it, no wait i don't hate to say it, but some of the most goddess-like girls can be the most immaturely retarded.
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Yeah, generally my type are not the attractive "hot" ones, if they're airheaded or act dumb to fit in they're out, anyone else is fair game.
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Also, guys take flattery in different ways. all are individuals, how ur thinking is generalising, which doesn;t usually portray a realistic view of reality. and just because u may think ur ugly, doesn;t mean all would. there will always be people who think ur ugly, and always be those who find you attractive. brad pitt has had a lot of girls after him, but there have been those who think ur ugly. even if ur a celebrity, it wudnlt garentee every person to like him. please don't be so hard on urself.
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i don't care what they do just as long as they have a steady job and able to take care of them selves in stead of me taking care of them!! oh and a car too!! lol
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*even if ur a celebrity, it wudnlt garentee every person to like YOU.
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I've hardly noticed when someone's liked me. I wudn't want to have to tell anyone i wasn't interested in them. I suppose i'd b a little frustrated if sum1 i wasn't interested in was being pushy bout wanting to be with me. But it's mostly about how you approach the one u like - i think.
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a mistake there/. "there have been those who think HE'S ugly"
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lol... that's a funny error
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lol. i didn't even realise it.
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i make mistakes all the time. i really shud read through my posts. just can;t be bothered most the time.
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We all do - it's 20:09 in South Africa and my bus'll be here in 20 minutes, so i need to head for the stop. What's the tym over there?
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2:11 PM on the east coast US, 10:11 AM on the west coast.
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Thanks - Cheers guys!