I feel i’ve lost my way since breaking up with my ex. She’s the best thing i’ve had and getting over her’s a nightmare. I find i’m not trusting of women and choose not to believe much of what they say.I’d like to be what i used to be before my ex. I enjoy women’s company but it’s hard to bring down barriers which seem to keep me safe. When does it end? Can i still be what i used to be - should i even try?
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if you feel that way then you shouldnt be dating. if you caompare a woman to another its not fair to her. so try to calm yourself until you think you can handle a relationship, then try again. its ok to campare a little, but caomparing everything means your not ready. and it does go away.. i guess.. im not a guy but i beleive it does. if it didnt then we all wouldnt really be here would we?
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Perhaps i'm not ready - kinda sucks though it's been a year and a half.It's messed up but maybe im not ready.Thanx hey!
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yeah?
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a year and a half huh? that really must be bad.. but you should try to take a break adn relax.. it acctually pretty fun being single! haha! but when you ready you'll know.. ou'll set your sight on some girl you happen to meet aand then when you fall in love you'll know you're ready to start dating again.. so keep your chin up k? things'll get better. it just takes time.
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These things take time. Don't beat yourself up about it. Keep going and keep trying and eventually when you meet someone special it will get easier for you. You will WANT to lower your barriers and let her in to your life. Perhaps you could speak to a counsellor about moving on and what you feel is stopping you? Although it sounds like your reaction is completely normal and that you were hurt by the relationship ending and just need to regain your confidence and trust in other people again. This does take time. Just keep going! Good luck!
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Thanx u guys - Hahanah and Bex. How bout i help someone else? Cheers!
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umm i feel bad pointing this out but you spelled my name wrong.. but its okies..
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Sorry bout that Habanah! - must have been typing absent mindedly, appreciate your advice too!
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Well, if she's the best thing that ever happened to you, maybe you should try to get back together. And if she doesn't want to, then she's definitely not the best, and you know you'll meet better women, if you just allow yourself to know them...
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That's kinda hard to digest, I've never thought of it that way. I tried getting back with her and she wouldn't have it. I think i gave so much of me for that relationship that it's kinda hard to think she's not really as good for me as i thought. Allowing myself to know them... - that's been a problem i need to work on.
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ALL PEOPLE ARE UNIQUE