i dont know.
i’ve never dated anyone. i’m young. barley 20 years old. but when i date someone i want it to be remotely serious. i’ll go ON dates to see if i’m interested in someone but they always turn out to be immature boys, or just someone looking for a bit of action.
when someone comes along that is the slightest bit serious, it kind of freaks me out.
now i’m not someone who’s on the prowl for a boyfriend. i take it as it comes. but for some reason i get freaked out at a sign of something serious.
i dont know if maybe i’m just not ready for something serious, or i’m truly afraid of commitment.
honestly i dont want it to be either of those.
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yeh, i get that too at times...
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heyy :) ... maybe u had some bad experience with men and stuff .. and ur reflecting that ??
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possibly. i cant really think of any. my parents used to fight a lot but now they're marriage counselors. i learned a LOT about relationships from my sisters. so i know how to do it. not 'IT', but it. hah :) possibility i was abused by my uncle as a child, but i dont recall much from then and i dont know if that would play a part in relationship commitment issues. i have a great relationship with my father so it's not neglect or anything of the sort. hi i'm holly and sometimes i over analyze things^ :) i no that no one can really answer this for me. i think i just need to let it out. maybe get an opinion or two. so thank you.
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hehehe i over analyze sometime 2 :D ... but that was my opinion i think something in the past is reflectin on that issue...
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i can relate to your problem .. im 18 i havent been with anyone serious and the moment a guy friend wants to get serious i just back out and im afraid .. i dont know whyy i have no clue but it scares me 2 death because it seems like im never get married or anything because im afraid of a serious relationship .. im still trying to find the answerr
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Wow! You are so young. It takes a long time to figure out who you are. Being free and able to date many people to figure out who you are is a good thing. Your twenties are a time of exploration. Acknowledge your "freakouts" as normal and then date lightly until you find the right one. No rush. Just enjoy!