We were living together, until last night, I moved back into my parents house. I love and respect this woman very much, so I want to give her the space and time she needs, but I don’t want this to be the end of our relationship because we are perfect for each other, and are very much in love. I can’t walk away from this, I love her. If someone could help me with some advice, it would be very much appreciated. Thanks for your time.
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In a relationship 2 people act as a unit or (1) but in reality they are both individuals. So when one sees again that they are in charge of their own life they might be a bit concerned and want to straighten things out. I feel like this at times: that I need to be alone so I cannot be distracted to get my goals in life. She may just need space for those reasons.
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Call her every other day, but dont talk about this issue, remain close to her.
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First of all I think you are very mature guy & your fiance is a very lucky person to have you . I think she would never leave you or anything because you are very hard to find , believe me !! she just needs time to do things on her own & this is normal . just call her from time to time & be supportive , encourge her to achieve her goals .
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well i appreciate that very much. she is currently not answering my phone calls, or the door. this really sucks right now. i just ******* wish this was over. i need some help all!
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every1 needs 2 find there selves this is just her time 2 figure herself out.She might come back 2 u maybe u need 2 let her have her time.im not being mean,jst u know every1 has 2 figure life out didn't u?
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Im in the same Boat as Zoo, been with her for 6 years, married 4 5 months.. n i wasnt an angel n i will man up n say i got a little Complacent with our relationship n thought she would always be there.... how wrong i was.. i love her and she loves me but she said she needs some time away... i do understand and respect her wishes n while she has been away i have been changing myself to be a better man... im doing it for myself as much as her.... i think we got in a rut.. i would do nething to get her back... ive told her this so i guess the balls in her court..
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I feel as if I have been the best man I could be. She said it has nothing to do with me, she just needs time. I'm wondering if I should just let her go for good, to save myself from this hurt. I think that maybe I've been wanting other people to figure this out for me, but I can't even do this, she needs to figure it out. I think. Im ******* depressed as **** right now.
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I hear ya and feel ur pain Trust me... Chin up... Stay positive.. And let it run its course.. everything happens for a reason... but U choose ur own destiny.... My advice would be to Leave it for a week or 2 then ask to catch up or somthing along those lines... but im in no position to give advice :P Neways dude... it may be the start of new begginings, or a happy ending either way u still got ur health hey?
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we are going to get together today, im going to let her speak first, so i can see where shes coming from, then if its not looking good, im walking away...for good. im not going to feel like this anymore, its tearing me apart bro.
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Dude, i know exactly how u feel, if u love this woman... which i know u do... she is possibly worth the wait... Women are a Wierd Breed hey... the worst thing a man can do is try and understand them coz sometimes they dont even understand themselves.... it will do ur head in.. But all the best with today hope it goes well for u!
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thanks man, it didnt go so well, but i feel better.
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well aslong as u feel better for it then i spose its all good, u dont know wat the future holds, she may come back who knows.. :P all the best mate.