ill try and make this as easy to understand as i can.
so last summer at camp i really liked this guy, alot. I don’t think i’ve ever felt this way about someone before actually..
anyway, i eventually found out that he liked me alot to, but it was to late to do anything about it. and i have no way to contact or see him. recently , i heard from another camp friend that he has a girlfriend. which at first i was like, well, whatever i don’t care. but then it started to eat at me, maybe because i’m paranoid, i don’t know. and i’m totally aware that there is like 6 months between now and when camp starts and when i see him again, and that i should be living my own life and stuff and that theres the possibility that they’ll break up between now and then and theres the possibility that i’ll even get into a relationship by then but it still bugs me. and i don’t understand why. and i wish it didnt, so that i can get on with my own **** liffeee. i need help. thanks.
p.s. yeah i’m aware that this could just be another stupid teenage girl thing………
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emm why not ask this other camp friend of yours for contact info for the guy, talk to him but dont try anythin because of his gf and maybe take up a new hobby where u can meet boys u like even more??? eventually when u move on to someone else you will just forget about him even if you dont realise you have you will!!! The other thing is its true what they say abscence make ths heart grow fonder, you may idealisng him and not even realsing it but when you meet him you could discover he is nothing like you remembered!!
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i kno exactly wat u mean the same happened to be except a little different...i realllllllllly liked this guy like alot then on the last day of camp at the dance my frends told him and...ya but then i never got his info...sigh i think bout him all the time searched facebook cant find him maybe thats how its supposed to be
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can your friend pass on a contact sounds like you need to tell him how you feel .you could still be a friend .stay in contact with him relationships come and go
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well, about the idealizing it's true. they say that actually pp r falling in love when they r apart thinking of each other. and if u dont c the person for a long time, u forget all the negative things and remember only the nice once + u invent sth u wish he/she thought, planned etc.. in reality it may turn out to be sth completely opposite. The guys r right, try to contact the guy, and whether it fails or not, spend more time in boys company. u may run into someone much more better! :)