been friends for more than a year now and me and her are in love with the same guy.They went out one time and then she broke up with him and she told me that i should go out with him and then i started to like him and now she says that she loves him and if i go out with him that she wont be my friend anymore.I am really in love with him and he said that he loves me to and he really wants to go out with me.But she is standing in the way of us being together.Me and her just recently got in a fight over him and she was mad at me for half a day and i almost cried when i found out she wasnt going to be my friend anymore i really love her and i dont know what i will do if she stops being my friend but i really love this guy to and what if he is my soulmate and she is just standing in the way of me and him being together forever.I dont know what i should do bcuz im tired of sneaking around with him without her knowing but i cant stop bcuz i am so in love with him and i have never felt this way about any other guy before. so what do i do???somone please help me!!
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You two should stop fighting over a dane guy!!! That's for sure! No guy is ever important enough to lose a friendship over.
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well i know but he goes to the same skool as we do and we see him everyday and its really hard for both of us to forget about him.She doesnt belive me when i say that i am going to stop talking to him so waht can i say or do to make her belive me????
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ummmm well it seems to me that she thinks once she beleives you that you are gonna go behinde her back and ask him out or something. Yopu should now start actually ignoring him at all costs, and make your friend beleive you.
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You are obviously very young (In school) and will have many other guys that you will admire. Friends are important and it sounds like your friend is more important to you than this guy. Maybe try to talk with her about how you feel about him and that she had her chance and she should not take your chance away from you. Think of how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot and use that to help with your decision.
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its not worth loosing a friend for ( trust me!) you are young, if he really is your soul mate he will find his way back to you. let it alone for now. hope it all works out
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Your friendship is WAY more important than a guy, but sometimes, circumstances make you wonder if your friend are really your friends. What you need to do is sit down with your friend and lay all your cards on the table. Tell her that you know that she really likes the guy, but you do too. She dumped him, didn't she? She told you that you should date him. Why is she changing her mind? You need to realize that your friends can't dictate your life. Tell her YOUR decision. If you really want this guy, tell her. Don't be afraid to stand up for what you feel. Tell her that you want to be her friend, because you love her, but you like this guy. It's not you who has the issues, it's her, because she changed her mind and threatened to not be your friend anymore. How juvenile! I had a friend who did that in 7-8th grade. I never asked the guy out, cause she told me she liked him and if I did, she wouldn't be my friend anymore. When I gave up, she dated him for a week, and broke up with him. After that, he didn't want to talk to ME because we were best friends. So, that's my story. Don't give up if you don't want to.
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well...if i were you i would wait. he already knows the likings of both of you...so just lay back and relax! o and if your friend wouldnt be your friend anymore if you asked him out (but ofcourse she knew you liked him also) then she should practice wat she preaches.