? PLZ HELP Do i talk to her?? Do i leavve her Alone?
i keep txting her to see how her day is and she says good thanks and thats it..
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we have been dating for 11 months then we took a break we hang out everyday all day!! then i kinda got mad cuz she we would hang out tomorrow and she hung out with her friends she said im sorry i love ect. im scared and dont want to lose her, she said she was feeling diffrently about me and she wanted to take this break to help her, she said she wants to hang out with her friends and concetrate on her school, i said i understood, she said its not a bad thing but it will help us in the end i txt her all the time and she said i was crowding her and to back off!! i never thought she could be so mean!! i dont know what to do.. does she like someone else or does she really need the space... i not ready to give her up.. but its so hard to stop txting!!
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i totally uderstand that you dont want to give her up... you weren't expecting this but you sound young and being in a serious relationship with someone when you are young is scary. give her the space she is asking for it is the only thing you can do. she just needs to probably remind herself that she can be independent and probably really does want to concentrate on school. you need to respect her space though - you coming to her is only going to make her realize that you "need" her... give her that space and show her you can stand on your own two feet - it will make her want you more believe me. go out with your friends and do the same thing that she is doing. let her come to you next - let her text you. ... she is just going to get annoyed and push your further away the more you dont respect the space she is looking for.
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Hi, This sounds like a bit like my situation. About 2 years ago I did the same thing to my ex bf. Your situation may not be the exact same as my situation, but it's similar. I'm going to tell you the story. Sorry you'll have to go through the long essay. I'll try to keep it short. So i liked him ever since sophmore year in high school (I'm in college now) and I never told him. Following year we go to homecoming together but another girl butts in. So here is where the drama starts. This girl like him and then he started becoming interested in her. He still doesn't know I like him. I was bothered by it. Somehow something happened where the girl kinda screwed him over and then he found me to confide in about her. I was hurt because I liked him. We eventually get together and dated for about 2.5 years. Here is where I broke it off. I broke it off with him after 2.5 years because he stopped appreciating the things I did for him, his friends only saw me as the gf not as a friend, his mom wasn't fond of me (she clearly liked the other girl more), and when I told him I loved him after 2.5 years he didn't say it back. His reason for that was "We don't say I love you to one another in my family, so I'm not used to it." very lame. Because I come from a culture where we don't even talk about our feelings and we don't say "I love you". I heard him say it to his brother all the time. And the problem with my relationship with him was that I bottled up alot of things that bothered me about the relationshi and I kept them to myself. I got fed up with it and let the relationship go. Afterwards (ok here is how it relates to you.....sorry it was a long intro) he kept calling me constantly, this was when texting wasn't as popular. I didn't want him to bother me, I wanted my space. What it means is what it is, let her breathe. In high school it is hard to have a relationship and at the same time grow up. She needs friends and she needs to figure out her future. I barely have friends because I was so attached to him and we spent alot of time together and I was always just a tag along in a way. I lost friends, and didn't think about the future much. So my advice is just give her some time. She's probably no into another guy. And give it a week or two and then set up a time when you can talk to her face to face without any distraction. Talk to her and ask her why she wanted the break in the first place. Communication is #1. That's where I failed. Just talk to her. Texting doesn't help. It's too impersonal. Face to face in a quiet place where you both can just focus on what needs to be discussed. Hope this long message helps.
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i agree give her a week or 2 and then a face to face conversation could do wonders. but be prepared at least with what you want to say... and where you want to go from there.
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Well i'ma a girl, and when i want space it usually my time of the month. But u should try comforting her maybe she is having trouble at home......or u probably did something wrong and u don't knw that she knws. Try to do something nice for her. Like giving her something. like a present just for being ur girlfriend.
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Oh puleese, it means she wants to break up with you. Simple.
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hardwew u nasty
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She wants to break up! this happened to me also with this GIRL I JUST LOVED! YOU WILL TRY TO TEXT HER AND SHE WILL REPLY! SOONER OR LATER SHE WILL STOP REPLYING TO YOUR TXT MESSAGES! IT'S HARD GET OVER IT!
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how do i know if a girl wants space from me ?! i like her but shes being a bit weird :/
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Well, I have been living with my girlfriend for about five years now and the othe day I got I need more space to find my self. I am still waiting to find the answer to this it has been 3 days now . I hope it mean just give some room. She has not left yet, but i fouind out that has has been looking for an apartment for about a week before she told me this. she is till pretty distant right now.
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this is like the situation im in also instead of her saying we should take a break/ she simply said i was better as a friend ! so i asked her there's no more me and you then? then she said i dont know maybe in the future; that meant to me we were moving too fast and need to start over as friends then earn the title boyfriend and girlfriend. because initially we jus started going out without even knowing eachother first. now my question is do i still hangout with her as i would normally or do i hangout a lil less than usual or do we hang out in groups or just together or sometimes together sometimes groups? we share the same friends btw... soo many questions im so confused! i still like her and still want to see her