i am a young teenage girl whos had her heart ripped out over 8 months ago and i am still no were over it or hi!

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but between hat period i met someone new and fel inlove again. and he ripped my heart out… is it possible to love two people at once… and how do you unlove someone???

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well i wish i could stop all this both guys ruined my life.
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Brandy my advice is to give yourself a little time your only young just have fun while you can it doesn't last long believe me =D
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I love that word, unlove. But bad news, you can't unlove someone. Think of a heart ache like a skinned kneee. If hurts at first, but not forever. Try to get out of the house, instead of moping around. And most of all, hang with friends, they will help alot.
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Oh one more thing, are you sure it is love, and not just attraction???
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Don't worry about them, you will eventually forget about them. For now just enjoy life and have fun! Your friends can help you, and the thing that would help the most is simply time itself.
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im taking time and im trying to smile, but seing their faces every day just makes it worse... i cant stand the thought of him being with someone that i know is gonna hurt him.....
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Well, I know that might be hard, but you have to let him lives his own life. And you need to take charge of yours again.
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the girl that is wanting to date him is only doing it cause she knows itll get to me! she used to be my bestfriend!!! him and her knew that almost two yeas ago i lost my virginity to a guy who rapped me and i ended up prgnant. i was just now 15 yearsold! i couldnt handle a baby so i got it aborted! i think about that baby everyday! and i know im a horrible person for it but its not like i was willin to sleep with him... so now the ex and the future girlfriend of the ex is tellin everyone that i got knocked up on my own and had it aborted!!!
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OK, well I see how that might hurt. But it wasn't your fault. And if he wants to go out with her, let him. The worst is he gets hurt, and goes to you to help get his heart mended. Now on the pregnant thing. It isn't their right to tell. How many people will believe them though? Not many. If they know you they will know it is a lie. Don't worry about it, people talk, it just means their own lives are interesting enough, they have to mess with your.
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well thank ou very much that does make me feel better and make me feel les likely to kill that little girl lol... i may not kill her but get her pretty close lol
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Well, I'm glad I could help. If you have more problems you can send me a shout, and if you like I'll give you my email. I'm used to being the peace maker. Everyone at school comes to me, cause they know I'll keep it confedintial, and try my best to help.
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Click my name, and then it will send you to my profile. Then there is a thing that says, "send shout." Just click it. It will email me, and Im on atleast once a day. I'll respond ASAP.
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The same thing happened to me and trust me i went through the same thing as you did and it hurt so bad.It still hurts because i havent gotten over my ex yet completly but im trying hard to already .I just found this guy taht likes me and when i found out and we got to know each other, and i found out that i started liking him too.We're still getting to know each other before we really start going out but i can feel taht hes makeing me forget about my ex. I always used to think about Joseph before Edgar.Now im thinking more about Edgar and Joseph is almost completly out of my mind. Even though i still see him in the hallways in school,and he tries to talk with me or flirt with me,(trying to get me back now taht he noticed taht this other guy is into me, he always does that)i just talk to him without showing my emotions much to him.I ve had my heart torn many times by the same guy and i finally got the courage to let him go and give it all up and find some one else.You shoukld try the same till you find someone tahts right for you.And yes there might be such a thing as being in love with two people.But maybe your jsut obsessed with one of them and the other one you really do like.The one taht you dont want to let go of, the one that you dont want no one to be with, the one that you ALWAYS think about and causes you to fail your classes or something is the one your obsessed with.TRUST me, i found him and i learned to let go of him.It was love but then it became obsession without me noticing.
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seems like u went through some real hard times, like everyone said take some time off and try to make new friends or sth, girl boy dont matter, just make new freinds have fun and well maybe find a new boyfriend that aint such n *******
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