I wanted to kill myself a lot of times. When I see a problem that is all I can see, not a solution of any kind. I don’t know the reason why every time I get close to someone ( a friend or so) after a while I’m the one hurt.
2 weeks ago my friend said that it bothers her that I go out with them but she doesn’t know the answer why. Since that everyone ignores me. I can’t talk to them, tried that already.
I’m afraid and lost and lonley… I can’t concentrate to anything I’m doing, I cry a lot… please… if you know, help me…
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just go out,.. meet new people.. remember that the people right now in your life aren't stuck to you, nor is your life... you can start over, anywhere, and be happier. if that's the case... there are things about life that you can change, and people and friends is one of them,.. i guess if you focus more on your life and what you want and on your goals, and try to reach them.. forget about people, and stop wasting your time solving that kind of problems,.. go after your dreams, and new friends, that are part of that dream or goal.. ( dont think too much about things, entertain yourself with new stuff, and the more you have in your life, the less important things will seem and the faster you'll want to solve them, and you'll notice in time that your great at it, and know what you want..)
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firstly, if you encounter a problem, don't think with your emotions, think realistically. drink lots of water for that will help your brain function like it should, it times of stress your brain needs double the amount of water. pull up a worse case cenario list. that will help you to see that things don't actually turn out as bad as we think they will. and remember 'this too shall pass' it always does. when it comes to people and people skills. read the book 'how to win friends and influence people'. it helped me a lot. don't give up on finding your own crowd. sometimes we think that we will not fit (or don't want to fit in) with a certain crowd and they end up being perfect for us and our best mates. as you grow older you will find yourself and stop worrying about who you hang out with. if they don't want to hang out with you, it's their loss. keep your head up high and fake it till you make it.
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Tell your friends why you can, is it something bad? Is it something you can share with them? Did they hurt you? The people around you may not know that they are hurting you. Tell them if you can.