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i wouldnt say i have the most confidence in the world, but i'm a hellova lot better than i used to be. i have a good sense of humour about myself. anything i'm insecure about i joke about. it makes me feel a little bit less self conscious about it, and other people relax a bit more around someone who doesnt take themselves too seriously
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Yes, it's always possible to improve on your self-esteem. Getting a good set of friends always helps. And doing things for other people can give you a great lift, and sense of achievement. Starts with just complimenting someone, or holding the door open. Fill your day with good things!
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you've a good outlook on things ex-penguin! its def true that helping people makes you feel good
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Thankyou :) Being positive always gives me hope, and the knowledge that things can only improve.
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yeah being positive has a massive impact on how u feel, its just i have not always been this way and even though i have friends i barely see them anymore as my confidence in myself stops me from bothering going out, its so much easier to stay at home, it doesnt help that my boyfriend is happy to stay in to and my father also has very very bad low self esteem and i was just wondering if anyone has ever completely recovered or drastically improved their self esteem.
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Ex-Penguin is right on. Surround yourself with people you love, help someone find their way to happiness, prove to yourself you are capable. Always be open to the experience - adventure and exploration, creativity, learning something new ...and bring those experiences to your friendships or relationships! :)
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I used to be like that. I had a boyfriend that dampened down my emotions, because he didn't like hyper people. We used to stay in the house day in and day out, because he doesn't like people. Now i am out with friends, re-discovering myself and having a lot of fun on the way. It may be hard to get started on the journey to recovery from it, but it is well worth the effort. If you are worried about going out with friends, i would suggest a casual trip to your local cinema xD Because not only do you have to shutup whilst in the film (which could avoid potential awkward conversation) you are spending time together, and the film will give you something to talk about for weeks afterwards. And your friends will like it that you're looking to spend time with them and such. Just an idea to start you off :)
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hey iam a guy of 22 years old,i have a bit low confidence when i start to like someone....i always think negative about my self like iam not good looking enough..ok i have nice character and enjoy being with friends, but when it comes to my looks i get a bit down i dont if anybody can give a hint to think positive