WARNING: THIS IS GOING TO BE LONG i dunno what’s wrong with me.
ok, so she was born here but she lives with her family in Jacksonville, Florida.
She lived here last year, the entire year, and i didn’t got to meet her, not even once.
At a baseball game, a week before she went back to the USA, she saw me, and she sais she fell in love with me right away, and she wanted to go and talk to me but she did not had the gasps to, so she kept on going to all of the following baseball games just to try and see me again, but she didn’t.
About 3 weeks after she left to the USA, i was hanging out on myspace and i saw her picture somewhere and i decided to add her. Honestly, that’s like too much coincidence. The thing is we started talking, and she passed me her msn, and then i told her where i was from and she said “yeah i lived there last year…” and then i sent her a picture and told her it was a picture of me at a baseball game.. and she said “oh i know who you are OMG i can’t believe it ….”
The thing is we started talking and calling each other on the phone, and she was saying she loved me, and all of those things, and i slowly started falling in love with her too…
I’m moving with my family to Brazil, on february next year, and she knows that of course, and she is comming here on march, so i’m not gonna be able to see her, she talked to her family and they gave her permission to come for christmas, but she called me a couple of weeks ago and told me she is not comming anymore :(
As the time passed, she started to stop being in love with me, even though she still kept on liking me as a friend, and now she tells me what boy she likes, how they talk for hours on the phone and all of that
The problem is the following:
i don’t know how i fell in love with her,
i can’t help getting depressed everytime i think of her and remember she’s not here and everytime i don’t talk to her for long
Everytime i see a picture of her anywhere i get lovesick, i get depressed and i don’t know how to help it i love her too much, she’s just the most beautifull girl for my eyes and she’s the coolest one… i’ve never felt in love with somebody like this and i’ve been sad for two months now and i don’t know what to do!! ppl please help me i need some good advice, i love her too much, and it’s hurting me, i don’t know what to do pleaseee :’(
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It's always difficult moving on from someone, remember you are not alone in this feeling. Although it may seem like she was going to be the only girl for you, there will be others and you can still keep in contact with her as a friend. Try to set yourself into the mindset that although you can't be together in a couple sort of way, that her friendship is something you value. They say that we don't make friends with people unless we think they're in some way attractive. And maybe growing close to her friendship wise will be okay for you. The other option is to block her our completely, and if you think that this is an easier way to move on because you don't think you could continue living as friends, that's okay too. You have to consider yourself in here, not in a selfish way, but because you should get on with seeing your life in a new positive light. Think of the things that you can achieve, the new people you can meet and the adventures you'll have on the way. Remember that love and partnership isn't the most important thing in the World.. I would say that great friends, however, will help you through most problems in life. Stay positive, and let us know how things go :)
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Long distance relation are difficult and complicated i think she knows that moved on so should you.
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people can change their feelings all of a sudden before you know it. it does hurt when that happens. but unfortunately, they do happen.
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She knows that and moved on, so should you. As for being friends it up to you.
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its good to know what love feels like, but for this girl the time has passed, you will find someone else some day and this will feel like nothing
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how old are you if you dont mind me asking?
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17