Where do you look to find optimism to get through the day?
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all i can say is, remember that you want your life to get better and if you try then it will. cherish the moments that you are happy, times spent with friends, remember that you are probably blessed in many ways, other people have it a lot worse and they are still living and can live happily. mind over matter. not a definite solution but it could help you get through the day.
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True, there is a lot of people out there have it way worse than me. But it's very hard to relate to that kind of things when you know you won't have money to survive the month for example.
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i understand. sometimes it just makes me feel better to remember that kind of stuff. i dont know your situation but if money is the case, then maybe you should figure out another way to get some and then you will be able to be more optimistic/content with your life. im sure you have already thought of that, of course but it just seems like you need to get to the root of the problem before you can be happy again.
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you know the funny thing is...if you don't know sadness...then you would never know happiness...there is a balance in every one's life....say if you have credit card debt..you overspend etc...you have to smush the overspending prior to getting out of it...say for instance you rent and rent seems too high..you would need to find another way to go right? so you have to look for the alternatives...Christmas tends to be very hard for many...but just remember you can't feel bad without having felt good...and you won't feel good again until the bad is over.
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Sometimes I don't know what the hell people are talking about. Life is a *****. Sometime slife feel absolutely pointless. No hope, just darkness an dmore misery to come. There is no point in thinking that other people are worse off. We know that but it does not change your situation or make you feel any different. There's no point in trying to count your blessing to get through the day because the reality of your situation just keeps on dominating. The problem is that the world is full of people. The worse the human being, the better they seem to function. Maybe to do well you need to be an evil , coniving, vinndictive, heartless human being. Maybe that is the secret. It seems to be the case. They are the one's who get what they want from life. The problem is that there is neevr any justice.