basically i just wrote this blog thing, and it’s talking about this guy i’ve liked for two years. he never knew really… here goes. what if~
he wasn’t a complete jerk? if he actually listened to me when i spoke, instead of turning around? not just leaving me hanging feeling awkward? what if he actually acknowledged my presence? knew i existed? realized how much i do for him? i wait for him everyday, and do i ever hear “thanks”? what if he responded when i texted him, just to talk to me too? what if he followed me, instead of the other way around? what if he stayed with me at lunch when i sit next to him? what if he knew? what if he just doesn’t get it? what if he let me know how he felt, so i wouldn’t feel insecure? what if i could hug him? what if it wasn’t awkward? what if everything was right? what if he actually said good-bye when he left, instead of just leaving me behind? what if he looked at me for who i really am? what if he actually cared enough to look? ): thats the first one. …the second one? ………. what if he lived closer? …… that’s it. and it’s not even his fault. the second guy lives near my grandparents….. 3 hours away. he’s perfect. but there’s no way. and i dont even know if he feels the same way. ): im going through sadness. immense sadness. any advice?
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Not all guys are like guy #1 there, you'll find one that's good sooner or later :) Even though some girls don't think so, guys really do notice them. Some guys also have a hard time reading girls signals. We can be pretty thick sometimes lol, you just may have to come straight out and tell him how you feel. As for #2, well long distance doesn't necessarily mean impossible. I've known people that have met who were on different continents and met online and eventually connected in person. If he's perfect I'm sure he's worth the distance. But like the first guy you should tell him how you feel.
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As a follow-up to Matt's post, which I support wholeheartedly except for his insinuation that perfection is possible: Close distances don't necessarily mean much time together, either. I'm learning that firsthand right now.
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I have no advice to this problem. Only 1 thing: Have a rest and then think about your guys. How to rest? Forget all-future and now and past of your life. AND THEN EAT fruits or play any sports game . 2 hour is enough to rest and then think! Start from right now! please
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My advice. dont waste your time on a guy. when you find the right one it'll all fit together a lot easier. if they are the right ones it'll happen. but cand you find better things do to than obsess over these guys?