She has joined internet chats and I don’t think my father knows of it. Does he have a right to know? She is asking people to talk dirty to her etc. What should I do?
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um. tell ur dad, it may not be ur favorite choice, but it is the right one.
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I was thinking to maybe disable her computer to make her stop. Less heartache perhaps??
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but it doesnt stop the fact that she is being unfaithful 2 ur father and also that u dont know where else she may b doing this.
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You're right. Everytime since I found out, if she says she is going to lunch with the girls or something, questions start popping up in my head. Maybe it would be better to confront her. My father is getting older, he is almost 60, and had to deal with alot in his life. I don't know how he would handle this.
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tell your farther he has a right to know. If you stop it now before it gets any worse then it might not develop into anything else.
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How would I say it? Dad, your wifes a slut on the net?? I am so confused!! I don't want to be responsible for breaking them up.
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say "dad i think you should know something. Ive been checking up on the history of the coputer and mums been on internet chat room telling people to talk dirty to her" or if thats not what happened change it around so that your dad know who you found out she was asking people to talk dirt to her? how did you find out?
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it wont break them up if it gets worse then yea it might ve a possiblility. so dont leave it too late
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I found out by stumbling on it when I was doing some things on her computer. Now I find i am constantly checking up and stuff. I just can't believe she would do this. Then there is the question of, what if Dad already knows? Some people are strange like that, you know, weird things turn them on... I have no idea!
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its a good thing your not imbarresed i would have dreamed of putting that online. im not a professional. im only 13 so you can turn away my help if you want to. are your pearents strong? how long have they been married? do they have alot of arguments? answer these questions and then we can see if you should tell him or not okay. nothing bad is going to happen i promise
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well they have been together 30 years. My mother is a problem gambler and has made our life hell since as long as I can remember. She almost made us broke i don't know how many times. My father always stands by her side and pays her debts. This latest thing has made me so angry because I think, how can she do this after everything? Maybe she has turned her addiction from gambling to chat sites.
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seems like you live a bit of a harsh life i feel so sorry for you. maybe it now would be best to confront your mother. your farther seems to have taken enough. I think your old enough to stand up and confront her. ake sure you have proof like print out the chats if you can so if she deletes them you still have hard evidence.
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I mean its not fair on your farther really is it?
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Its not and if my partner was doing it i would want somebody to tell me. If worst comes to worst I could always cut her out of my life. No great loss.. hehehe. Thanks for the chat. I am going to go now... its 4am!!
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wow its only 5pm here