He says he loves and wants to be with me and now… my brother saw him last night at a club grinding on some girl and hitting on my brothers friends! I loved him so much. I did everything for him and it still wasnt enough! He lead me on the whole time! I dont know what to do… I really thought he was the ‘one’ :-(
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if that's you on your avatar then you are young. that's just how men are when they are young. get use to it. very few of us are lucky enough to find mr. or miss. right early in our lives. He might not have been leading you on. alot of times guys change their minds more often then their knickers, god i hope they do hahaha!
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well im 24 and hes 32! and my brothers 18!
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player, for sure. the only thing to do now is decide whether or not you are the type of girl that minds being affiliated with that type of guy. use protection for your own good.
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get him back make him feel jelous out of my own opinion he is a d**k head anyway no offense he has probebly lost someone very special to the heart just get him back flirt with some lads and he will soon want you back and when he says please say you shouldnt have done what you did and you would still have me Hope that helps
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ahh well we havnt done anything like that in months!
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the thing is jamie, he was on his second chance!!
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my brother said he was making a complete idiot out of himself! none of the girls were interested anyway and he said he dances like a puff!!
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dude second chance!!!! reality check are you listening your hot and there are about 3.5 billion guys on the planet F____ him.
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Let him go i know it is hard but if i wasnt dating and if i was a quite a bit older i would love to be dating you he has missed out on someone special and when he asks for u back say f**k that i have someone better someone who treats me the right way
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does that help
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very much so x
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Good i hope i have helped you will find someone that treats you great and i know it will be soon with your looks and you seem to have a great personality too so just get out there ....
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i text him last night saying exactly that - F--- OFF! my brother saw everything! he kept ringing me, so i turned my phone off, he left me a voicemail of him crying... probably faking it the PLAYA!
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i just feel so used :-(
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You fancy Latins We're use to being used.
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You fancy Latins We're use to being used. oh dont say that... why what happened
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I was just trying to cheer you up. haha
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oh lol!
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post/59054-long-story-short did i do that right. anyway check my post and see why i care
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Don't look back in anger (Oasis) is the best forget about someone song. smile
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Don't look back in anger (Oasis) is the best forget about someone song. smile maybe i wont think about him... but hes the only one ive ever bin IN love with. thats probably why i put up with his drama's
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hey there's nothing wrong with that. we all are just giving you our view from outside the box that you are in. the truth is only you can do anything about this. And is not big of a problem . Love sucks sometimes. but other times its... well you know, right!
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he is way older than u, find a new love, or go for a new approach. and no, i dont really know what i am saying either. lol:P
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i know it is very hard to let go but u will find somebody better trust me
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Oh my God, this was just like this guy I was SO in love with over ten years ago. He was also 32 and when he was with me, he made me feel like I was the only one. Then his own cousin called to let me know he was two timing me with another girl and she also let me know that he had cheated on every girlfriend he had ever had. I was the one who did the breaking up and believe me, if someone had ripped my heart out it wouldn't have hurt as much. After a while I realized that in order to truly love someone else, we have to start loving ourselves first. If you don't have any self love or self respect, you will end up looking for it from other people. Low self esteem also plays into this, since now looking back I realize this guy had such low self esteem, any one could walk up to him and say anything and he would go home with them. If I had married this guy, I realize now he would have been a terrible father and we would have ended up getting a divorce. I thank God everyday I walked away and one day when you are with the guy you are supposed to be with you will be glad it didn't work out with this one. At 24, you are probalby thinking that this is the guy for you and that maybe your are soulmates or something. I felt that way about three different guys before I turned 30. Turns out, the guy I didn't feel this for was the one I ended up marrying and now we are happily married with two kids and guess what, I never have to question his fidelity because I know he would never do anything to hurt me. You'll see, things have a way of working out...
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i think i fell for every trick in the players book. ppl warned me he was a charmer.. but i didnt think anything of it. i felt like his trophy gf
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His not worth wasteing ur time on
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Yeah rya has a great point go for someone who will treat you great (like me lol joke I'm already seeing someone) but yeah there is more fish in the sea so just get out there and prove to him that you are strong enough to get away from him
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i think i fell for every trick in the players book. ppl warned me he was a charmer.. but i didnt think anything of it. i felt like his trophy gf i just dont think this will help just take a chair sit down and talk it all with you charming bf i want to, but m not contacting him until he does... he should realise hes done something wrong (although he believes he hasnt - his philosophy is as long as you dont kiss/sleep with anyone - its cool - you're faithfull!) - what do you think?
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really? i feel so used, and abused. ive bin with him over a year and now i just feel its bin for nothing. what a waste. i did everything for that guy! IM SO ANGRY! WHATS WRONG WITH ME?! WHY DIDNT HE LOVE ME!!! im not bad looking ive got tons of guys who want my time, but i choose to waste it on him :'(
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i really though i could 'save' him...
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girl this guy played you big time,at least now you know the game good luck with the next pursuit oh yeh if he calls tell him this real hot young guy from sweeden is wanting to hook up,hehe that will show him ,tell him he was to old anyways
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Hunni you are gorgeous!! you can get any guy, if anythin im proud of you for realisin what he is doin is wrong. some people become blinded by love. it may hurt, but a broken heart continues to beat! he is not the only guy you will ever be with, and im sure there may be a few more who you give everythin up for...but thats just the way life/love it. and it sucks. but take a deep breath and face it head on. you've got us, and youve got friends, youve got your brother! get out there and party, flirt with guys if you want...or spend some time with your friends. think of all the things you can do now! think how you can go out at the drop of a hat with your friends and you can go out and you dont have to feel guilty if people get you attention. Wheres Lydgate by the way? Im from Tamworth (20mins from birmingham) hope your ok anyway, keep me updated! you'll be alright!
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He is not worth your time you could do much better than him i know it might be hard to let go of him but with your looks and personality i recon that you could get quite a lot of people after you so just let him go and get out there Hope this helps
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Thank you for all your support - i will take your advice and learn from this experience and move on... all the best guys XXXX