im a bigger guy people shut me down all the time and make fun of m and say its not about looks or anything that im good friend yet there looking for this perfect guy who is as they described would be me with out the skinny looks….and they cant get a bf so there going to have friends with benifits but not with me with hot guys what do i do?
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be yourself, they aren't right for you if they can't see your redeeming qualities, looks aren't everything, I had horrible, horrible acne for a while and people treated me similarly. Things will change, you will meet someone that likes you for what you have, not dislike you for what you don't have. Don't take offense to this, but if it is really bothering you then try to lose weight, there are lots of things to try, so don't think you are stuck.
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wait are you a lesbian?
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Looks arent everything and some people just dont understand that....relationships start with being friends first.... you seem like a nice guy.... just stay nice... be a good friend.....and there somebody for everyone...... Good luck....
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im a guy thanks and losing weight is somthing i want to do i have arthritis in my left ankle so i cant really go for a jog, and im working on eating habits and such but man its all i think about i just cant take it no more you know?
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you don't have to jog, there are other activities you can do as well and treatment for arthritis. There are ways out of every situation. Eating healthy is a good start, then just start being more active, not necessarily working out or jogging, but just moving more.
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ohhh sorry its just u said "im a bigger girl" well of course if they just wanna get off theyll do it with a hot guy. but u dont want to be just friends with benefits anyway. that's lame. in the long run personality is more important than looks. the girls will stop settling for ******* the hot guy and want to settle down with a nicer, maybe not so hot guy. so just hang in there. you'll find someone.
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sorry im jsut not thinking straight see its cause im thinknig of how i can get a girl lol this happens all the time at work im always unhappy and cehcking out all the girls and wondering what its like you know?
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i don't think size makes that much of a diffrence i'm big but i do ok i think you may have to go out more
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Jeez man. I feel your pain. I had gotten to the point of where I wouldn't eat for days, I constanly tried to purge and exercise, but nothing I did worked for me, as I became really sick. My best advice is to find a girl who's more open to bigger guys and be a friend with her first, then try and move on to a better relationship with her. No need to be shallow or anything. Not saying you are, but you gotta look everywhere for the right people. The other alternative is to lose weight. Diets aren't ever fun, but they are safer than what I did.You don't have to jog to exercise. Try looking around in a fitness website or magazines for exercises that you can do that will burn calories. If strenuous exercise ain't your thing, walk around a park a couple times a week and work your way up. A friend of mine used to be a very big girl. She's now in shape and about the size I am now, which ain't that big, but it's more than average. Either way, she's a lot hotter now. Whatever you decide, you just have to commit to it. Good luck.
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Hello Mike, I'm kind of at a loss for words at the moment. I'm a senior at my high school, and I've attended this town's schooling since i was little. So I would say I have a good handful of friends. I've also had my share of relationships, not the silly 2 wk thing and im in love with them kind of thing, but a relationship where i get ot know them and we talk for a while and start slow. But im a person who has been through a considerable amount of hardships and think about the people whom im thinking about hanging out with and if they will do me justice and treat with the respect that i anticipate and i know i deserve. thats how i've realized that i wnat to be with someone that i can be myself around, dont have to be ashamed of myself, and they can certtainly be the same with me. Integrity, honesty, loyalty, are just some of the finest qualities that i look for. Mike, you deserve the best, you see, to have a big heart and that needs to be shared with someone who really wants to get to know it and deserves the pleasure of knowing you. take your time, looks are not everything and are not important when you're looking for the certain someone. Time will tell. Take care Mike and I hope it works out for you. Im here wheneve you need someone. :)