im in with a very beauitifull sexy women i have been with for 7mths we break up everyday which is stupid coz im in love with her she can be loving too but she has server learning difficulties and has some mental proberlems which i have seen past since we have been together she now keeps texting a old school friend who indeed like most of the men around her want to go all the way with her, her phone goes off constantly and they meet up in secret if i question her she says its a friend and i dont trust her and she brings up all the past arguements thast we have had about different things so i have to back down coz im in love with her but i know its this guy coz her our flat mates have told me they have flirted and have sheared some very intimate kissis im worried im losing her i do everything in my power as a great loving partner to her i dont know why she would cheat on me i cant help feeling like **** constantly i have just been told i might have a brain tumour and she didnt seem to care why would she do this to me ????
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are we dating the same girl? i dont know man.. i feel for ya. i really do.
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Take the initiative and break up with her. You will feel less shi**y in the long run.
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You can buy backbones at my website. You are being played because she loves being loved. No one man good enough for her. She was probably molested and is in need of therapy. Either get her the help she needs or leave her... she'll ruin you.
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You are in a no win situation. End it. It might hurt now but in six months you dont have to feel like ****** anymore. You are experiencing now exactly what you can expect in th future if you stay with her....the only change that you will see is that it is only going to get worse.
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It won't get any better because she will not admit that she is doing wrong, and because you think she is doing everything wrong... understand?
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Relationships that make you "feel like **** constantly" are to be discarded. Don't waste another moment of your precious life on this. Find a relationship that makes you feel good.
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Some advice from an "old" (30 next month) happily married woman who dated a LOT before marriage. What you feel for her may *feel* like love, but isn't if you can't trust her. She makes your heart and stomach flutter because she's pretty and has you wound around her finger, but that's not love. You're in lust, and afraid, which is exciting, but isn't love. Love is trust, friendship and partnership. Plus a hefty dose of lust. But really, the most important part is the trust and friendship. Dude, I'm with the above posters. Break up with her. Even if she finally settles down, she's pushed you too far and you'll never really be able to trust her. It'll hurt for a little while, but it's like ripping off a band-aid. Find something to distract yourself and in a few weeks to a couple months, you'll realize it's passed and feel 200% better. This time of year sux for this sort of thing. I know, I broke up with the last guy I dated before my (eventual) husband over Xmas break. About a month later I realized my best friend was pretty hot, but I hadn't seen him like that before because I was in the middle of a crap relationship. We started dating, and had been best friends for so long, it was perfect! Married 4 years, been together 7 as friends, dating, engaged and married. Seriously, it's hard at first, but when you start feeling better, the world will look SOO much better than it did before! Happy holidays!