i go to a private Christian high school and she was “strongly encouraged” not to return when the dean of students found out. she has since then deleted me (and a lot of our other friends) off her “friends” list on MySpace and Facebook and she won’t talk to anyone. i really, really want to be there for her because i know she must be going through such a tough time but she just won’t talk to me. suggestions?
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give her some time.. being pregnant at that age is a really tough experience. i had my first when i was 16... hopefully, she has the support of her parents and family.. but.. just give her time.. let her deal with her situation... im sure she will be back...
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lil-bit is right give her sometime. She is going through a very stressful time. Has she stopped talking to all of her friends from school, or just you?
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not just me... a lot of people. i just love her so much and i really want her to know that i support her no matter what happens, and that i won't judge her.
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Can you send her a letter in the mail or stop by her house to see her?
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i could, but i'm just scared that she won't want to see me or hear from me... i've tried a couple of times to get a hold of her and she always answers but it's always really short & impersonal answers.
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I would start off by writing her a very sicere letter from your heart. Let her know how you are feeling and that you will be there for when she needs you. After that give her time. When she is ready she will reach out to you. If you don't here from her in a couple of months you can try stopping by her house. Remember she is not ignoring you for personal reasons, it is just that she is very stressed. Good luck!
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dont get knocked up yourself, first off. Secondly, she should tell the Dean O' Students to kiss her Hinderparts, its a free #$&% country and she can go to school there if she d
amn well pleases, especially if she pays. Just call her up, or go try and talk to her in person and tell her that you support her and that youre there for her.
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It is none of my business, but it might help for you to know who got her pregnant if you don't already. That could be a big factor. Is it someone she loves or was it a one night stand? That could be affecting her feelings greatly and how she is going to deal with it. Again, let her know that you are there for her always, she will apriciate that greatly, even if she doesn't show it. She also might be avoiding people because she feels ashamed. Going to a school like that and having this happen to you is probabally making her feel unworthy of your friendships. She may just want somebody to talk to too.
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i agree.. write her a letter, put it in the mail and let it go from there.. let her know that you are there to support her.. let her know how it is bothering you to not be able to be there for her... tell her that you are there if she needs someone to talk too... and leave it at that... as i said earlier... she probably needs her space... as long as her family is there supporting her... then she is in good hands... being too pushy in wanting to help is only going to get you no where....
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I agree with Maximina, tell her you will be there for her no matter what, you aren't judging her, you love her, and that you are her friend. Give her a little time to figure out what she is doing. I bet she comes around.
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Hmm thats a tough one the only thing i would say is write her a letter or go to her house. if theeres no other way you'll ahve to be a little forward sumtimes it takes someone who wont give up to help you. And its great your wanting to be there for her :)
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Just let her know somehow that you still want to be her friend and that you miss her. Don't try talking or helping her about the pregnancy situation until you have established your friendship again. She wouldn't have deleted you all without a reason. Maybe she feels betrayed somehow? Maybe her parents have made her quit all her friends? Try calling her up and inviting her out to something you both enjoy doing. Good luck and thank you for caring about her and not judging her.
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If you see her at school or at the mall or something, say hello, and just be a good friend. Honestly... this might sound mean but.... you could get a new name on myspace/facebook and use some random name and just be her friend through the internet if nothing else.
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After giving her some time, try to support her to the best of your ability. P.S. I'm disappointed in her quote unquote Christian school for turning her away, troubled souls should be saved, not cast away. What sort of Christians are they!?!?!I feel like my family excludes me from everything.
why do schools block stuff like myspace its not like
When someone lives 2 hours from you,
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Im in love whit this girl…
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It is none of my business, but it might help for you to know who got her pregnant if you don't already. That could be a big factor. Is it someone she loves or was it a one night stand? That could be affecting her feelings greatly and how she is going to deal with it. Again, let her know that you are there for her always, she will apriciate that greatly, even if she doesn't show it. She also might be avoiding people because she feels ashamed. Going to a school like that and having this happen to you is probabally making her feel unworthy of your friendships. She may just want somebody to talk to too.
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i agree.. write her a letter, put it in the mail and let it go from there.. let her know that you are there to support her.. let her know how it is bothering you to not be able to be there for her... tell her that you are there if she needs someone to talk too... and leave it at that... as i said earlier... she probably needs her space... as long as her family is there supporting her... then she is in good hands... being too pushy in wanting to help is only going to get you no where....
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I agree with Maximina, tell her you will be there for her no matter what, you aren't judging her, you love her, and that you are her friend. Give her a little time to figure out what she is doing. I bet she comes around.
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Hmm thats a tough one the only thing i would say is write her a letter or go to her house. if theeres no other way you'll ahve to be a little forward sumtimes it takes someone who wont give up to help you. And its great your wanting to be there for her :)
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Just let her know somehow that you still want to be her friend and that you miss her. Don't try talking or helping her about the pregnancy situation until you have established your friendship again. She wouldn't have deleted you all without a reason. Maybe she feels betrayed somehow? Maybe her parents have made her quit all her friends? Try calling her up and inviting her out to something you both enjoy doing. Good luck and thank you for caring about her and not judging her.
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If you see her at school or at the mall or something, say hello, and just be a good friend. Honestly... this might sound mean but.... you could get a new name on myspace/facebook and use some random name and just be her friend through the internet if nothing else.
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After giving her some time, try to support her to the best of your ability. P.S. I'm disappointed in her quote unquote Christian school for turning her away, troubled souls should be saved, not cast away. What sort of Christians are they!?!?!