well anyways.
we love each other and all that stuff. but the issue is her parent will never let her sleep over or anything.
and is really affectiong our relationship but just a little bit.
how can i talk to her parent? to let her sleepover and to trush me more
her parent are white and she is white too. and im hispanic.
could be because im hispanic?
her whole famely lieks me but then
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first off... how old are you guys?
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well im 19 i have job i have car. my parent own a big house, also they would not even let me sleep over. i think they think im not matures. i take my little boy 4 day out of week and take care of him and work is mad had but i do it
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how old is she? if she is 17 or 18... why cant she spend the night at your house? i can understand a parent not wanting their child's "lover" at the house... my daughter is 16 years old.. and having her boyfriend over wouldnt bother me at all... but to sleep over... just the thought of them having sex would bother me... plus.. seeing that you already have one baby... they are probably scared that it might happen again before you two are really ready for another one... ya know?
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Why are you not married Jordan's mom?
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i had my two daughters at 16 and 18.. and i wasnt married... that is a huge step... and something that should only be done when you know that its right... you dont absolutely have to be married... especially at their age.
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Random User i dont understan you question,, you mean why am i not married with her she is only 17 im going to get engange with her next year
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lil_bit_shi thank for the replies. i just want to talk to her parent to understand that soon they will die and and they are not gonna be ther and i can be waiting here for then to make theri desition. i want then to understand i love their douther and i wann build my future withy her and raise our little boy
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i understand that... and with your job history and such.. that is a very very good start.... but the idea as i said of her having "sex" under their roof is probably driving that wedge in there... she is 17 and has a child... they dont want her to become pregnant again too soon.. know what i mean? maybe if you wanted to spend the night... talk to them about sleeping in another room with out her... tuff.. i know... but it is their house... and i feel for you.. is she on birth control? i had 3 kids by the time i was 20.. married at 21.... even though i would never change my kids... i kind of wish that i was older... and as for the marriage thing.... hhhmmmm..... not sure i would ever make that step again.. because it is a very big step in life... i wish you luck...
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she has the T inside i dont if you know what im talking about. and no is not even about sex. we have sex and everything. i dont need to be at their to have it there are many places to do it. i just want to sleep next her and wake up next to her. her parent do not trust me what so ever but is cool. on chrismass im gonna be tehre all day because my girl wants me to be there. so they are goign to ahve to learn to like me the hard way. i know they dont want me to be there but im going anyways. my son is tehre and they cant say no if iw ant to see him
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nice... maybe by you being forward like this.. it will show them that you are not taking any crap.. that you want to be there for your family... so applause to you... stick to it... no matter what... have you thought of asking your parents if she could move in with you? as for the t thing... no.. i have no idea... got fixed when i was 21... 12 years ago... lol.. didnt have to worry about all that stuff... lol..
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i had my two daughters at 16 and 18.. and i wasnt married... that is a huge step... and something that should only be done when you know that its right... you dont absolutely have to be married... especially at their age. I agree marriage is a huge step, but raising a child is an even bigger step. lil_bit_shi thank for the replies. i just want to talk to her parent to understand that soon they will die and and they are not gonna be ther and i can be waiting here for then to make theri desition. i want then to understand i love their douther and i wann build my future withy her and raise our little boy Hispanic, their trust will come with time. You may have to 'rebuild' the trust they lost in you when their daughter became pregnant. I realize you love her and your son, just keep reinforcing that by your actions and the parents will come around. :) Good luck.
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naw is not even like that. i find out her step mother want us to break up so they can get me for chield support so they ahve more money. they are always put shi* in my girls head. i dont know but thanks for all the replies
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are you kidding me???? omg...
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like my giel she get some source of money from SSN from her moms becasue she past away so she get some money and that ****ing bit** doesnt give it to her. they say to her is to pay light water cable and whole buch of stuff. and im like what?? is like if you renting to live there. and it makes me mad my little boy is there. and i get fraid my little boy will feel like left behing when he is there. and plu my son is better looking. their son is papper white but he is cool his funny but i hate her step mom. she alwasy trying to do something
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for one.... when i had my children... there were no fathers... as soon as i found out i was pregnant.. all i saw of them were there @ss' heading out the door... i raised my kids myself... so being that you are there for your son and his mother ... i congratulate you... you are a true man... as for the child support.. this is what i suggest you do... and being that i have been and still am going through family court... please take this advise whole heartidly... you and your girlfriend need to go to family court and apply for child support. being that you two are together.. she can go in and state that she is ok with what you are giving her for support... or make up a reasonable amount for the two of you to agree on... this way here.. you have it court ordered.. and if something were to happen.... and you did break up... you have it through the courts stating that you owe a certain amount... her parents sound like dirt bags.. money hungry evil people..
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basicle she has her dad wip he does what ever she said i dont know why. my girl said he ised to be mad cool before. wait we getting off topict. im just gonna try to talk ot then and see what i can do to get then to trush me
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yeah tahts right money hungry evil people.. i give to her 100$ every week no matter what so my little boy always has everything. makes me happy because he has everything i never had when i was a little boy. because i come from poor famely but now im doing even better then they are they spend money they dont have. like her step mom when to buy a iphone. and now they dont have money to piad for the phone. stuff like that
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no kidding... if i were you.. i would have that put in the bank.. and maybe get a bank card so that she can use it that way.. it keeps track of all of her money.. comming in and going out... seeing that the evil step mother is money hungry.. it will keep her from taking it... and if she does.. there is proof...
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yeah my girl has acces to my bank acount. igave her a copy of my card. and she knows the number.. even one time she took the card from her. i was piss. also my girl has also lost money on her house. which she remmeber leave it at one place. and they say to her you probaly lost it at school. they are all about money. they will rather speand money in shoes clothe and stuff like that. then paid theur bills
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uh oh.. did you say something naughty??? lmfao.....
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no i was saying they will rather spend thier money on shoes clothe then to paid the bills i dont know why that came out
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lol... hahahahahaha... yeah.. my parents are like that... they spend and spend... and never have the money to pay their bills.... and then when it comes to disconnection.. im their saviors.. i hand them money.. which they still owe me part a grand that i lent them a year ago.. and then recently, my car got totaled by a drunk driver.. and because it was in their insurance.. instead of giving me all my money.. took 300.00 to save their @ss'.... and still owe that.. leaving me behind and not being able to get anything for my own kids for christmas... hows that for parents???
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yeah i know her parent are bad, but my parent are mad cool they bough a car fro me but i had to paid then back littel by little but is good. well thank you for you replies, your relly nice girl, you e-mail or anything maybe i will need help from you again since you been though this aready you most know more about this then me
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do you have msn messenger? if you do... my name is as follows.. lil_bit_shie(at)hotmail(dot)com... same with the email address.. its all the same... for both..
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i wish you luck and stand by your guns... stay strong.. and love that little boy..
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The reason they probably won't let her is because they're afraid that you might end up with another little boy to take care of. (or girl). I seriously doubt that it's because you're hispanic.
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i dont know. but no she has the T inside so she dont have babies for 5 years. and plus we ise a condom. and no no no i dont want another little boy for while while. yeah but still you know they should alow her to sleep over at least once a week you know