through a really tough time in my life currently; i just lost my relationship with my long term boyfriend and i am unhappy to say the least. i miss him terribly and i would trade anything in the world to have him back in my life as my best friend and my boyfriend. HELP? We are still extremely close, is there any way i can get him back? ADVISE FROM GUYS IN HIS POSITION WOULD BE A GREAT DEAL OF HELP!!!
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Did he say why he was breaking up with you?
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he said he couldnt handle a relationship anymore :(
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OK. so he can't handle a relationship anymore... were you guys arguing, does he have too much stuff going on in his personal life? Work, School???
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are you jelous or want to get him whip. thats a no no. you dont want to tell a guy what he can and cant do. talk ot him tell him how you feel. but one thing. dont make your self look low. we guy tend to take advantage of girl when they beg us to much and cry on the phone tell him how you feel and everything. and taht youw ant him back and that you willing tow okr stuff out
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I went thru that a long time ago {4years} and i just started talking to her again recently. if you really love him don't push the issue and just try to stay friends. That is way important. I wish i would have done that.
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i am def not jealous and i am VERY laid back, not whipped at all.
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i am staying best friends with him and we hung out the night it happened at a party and we acted like nothing happend except there was no holding hands, kissing ect but we were good.
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Check your shout box
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Try this but no guarantee. http://www.howtowinanexback.com/ I lost my fiance two weeks ago. I know how you feel.
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What if I told you that giving him this space and time will not only bring him back, but even make the relationship better? Because, if he's leaving, the relationship really could be improved on. I've done a ton of work on my relationship skills after I broke up with my ex and since reading a lot of these authors and putting their ideas into practice, I've really changed what I thought was a great love life into a terrific one. Good authors to check out: - for your specific case, "Retrieve a Lover" by Cucan Pemo (online) - slightly "out there", but a great starting point for where you are right now. - Then Christian Carter's "Catch Him and Keep Him" ebook. I have now bought most of his stuff. It's expensive, so that's really saying a lot. - Then Paige Parker's "Dating without Drama" ebook. Give him some time, seriously, and work on improving yourself. This way you won't get into a yo-yo situation with him. Good luck.
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how do i get the book i think it would help
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me and a girlfriend got very close and she seemed the most important in my life over any body... over my self... the relationship.. it felt so good to have someone to call mine and that i was someone elses... but we had major differences in religion... and both belived in our religon that we were.. i was a conservitive prodostant.. like more conservative than most.. and she was catholic... her whole family was and my whole family was prodostant including our extended family and our family would just not of gotten along... but we broke up because we knew it wasnt going to work out in the long run... it took me a long time to just smile again.. to think any thing in my life was close to as good as she was... but like i said we both liked eachother... still after we broke up and tryed to get over eachother and be best friends at the same time... but it just didnt work... over a year later we still liked eachother even though she had multiple boy friends but none compared to our relationship... the preivioius writer.. yo yo effect.. for like a year n half and still occationally... but recently i gave my life to jesus and it was verry difficult to do such a thing but once i gave every thing to him... its like a better relationship than ever!!! its unnatural to give your life up to him but if you realize what hes done for you youll want to! trust me.. i dont know if ur a religious person or not but the only way i found to get over her and veiw her as a friend again is threw jesus christ.. if you have any questions email me
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For the stuff I mentioned, an easy google search will take you there. Christian Carter: http://www.catchhimandkeephim.com/13438/Catalog/ Cucan Pemo: http://www.retrievealover.com/ Paige Parker: http://www.datingwithoutdrama.com/datingdish/100/ebook1.html Obviously I'm not affiliated with any of these authors, I don't get commission on any of this stuff, etc. I just really believe in it and it's worked for me.
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being that you two were long term.. and as you say.. there was nothing really to break you two up... just that he doesnt want to be in the relationship... have you thought of the fact that maybe he has found someone else that has his interest? and maybe he broke up with you so that he didnt hurt you by cheating? just a thought...
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I read the comments, thinking something all the time. Lil bit said it.
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it is definately not the case. his father and i are very close and his father is all he has, so he knows everything about my ex they are very close. i spoke to his father and he said there is definately no one new in his life i just hope this break up was the best for him and i wish him luck in his further endeavors
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so i did exactly what you guys have been saying all along, to just leave him be and not bother him, give him time to think i did and we are back together. thank you all for your help. it was greatly appreciated!
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congrats hun...
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Hrm... congrats, and take care!