He says he’s scared that I won’t be friends with him. I don’t want to be his girlfriend anymore. How do I make him understand?
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Let him know that your friendship is what counts. And if he won't allow that, just tell him that if he really cared, he'd understand and let you live your life and be happy.
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One thing at a time, I say. The friendship issue can confuse people who don't want to hear it's over. Start with simply breaking up, and let him soak that up - and while I have no doubt you care, you can't be accountable for his fears. Just let all that go. Tell him it's over, and don't ask him to like it or be okay with it. Don't ask for permission. If he's mature enough to get over it, work on the friendship then. Right now the best thing you can do for him is get him to understand that it's over and done, so say that and be done with it.
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tell him firmly, don't let him play you.if you want to break up theres nothing he can do about.friendship after a break up depends how well both people take it and if they feel like being friends aafterwards, and these things can take time.
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tell him firmly, don't let him play you.if you want to break up theres nothing he can do about.friendship after a break up depends how well both people take it and if they feel like being friends aafterwards, and these things can take time. totally agree!!!
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Um, usually a relationship is cooperative.. so if one party doesn't want to be part of it anymore.. then you are broken up. There is a likelihood he is using that as an excuse so you don't break up rather than having actual fears.
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nothere12 is right
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give him the number 1-800-NEED-HIM its random but give him it and then break it off
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tell him i am a nun
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You have to worry about yourself first. Ditch him!!
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HELP!!! I've been living with this guy who of course is my boyfriend.He is the worst nightmare,he treats me really bad.He is really violent with me,hits me,and offends me in so many ways.What do I do for him to just leave me alone for good.
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I recommend finding friends and family who will not mind supporting you through a difficult transition, and leaving once and for all. Just go, and tell him or leave a note - but only once. There is no need to open the door for getting back together. The only way to help him is ot show him once and for all that people will never tolerate his behavior. Staying with him, or getting back together with him, only teaches him that you like being hit. I promise you this. Leave before you get killed, and never go back - not to show him, but for yourself.
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