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Yes.
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what if he's engaged? do i still tell him or keep it to myself?
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Is he engaged? Or in love with someone else?
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engaged. he's getting married in aug. 09
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Sorry. It's a little late. But do what you think is best.
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ok. so does that mean I should listen to my heart? If i choose to tell him how do i do it?
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Listen to what your heart tells you. Don't dissolve, though, if he doesn't love you in return. How long have you loved him?
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first of all what do you mean by dissolve? and iv'e loved him for at least 5 years. I know thats a long time but the more i got to know him the more i loved him. btw he's one of my youth leaders. he's 23 and im 19 but i'll be 20 in June.
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By 'Dissolve' I mean don't fall apart. I'm sorry if you don't understand that. He loves his fiancee, I'm sure. So don't be too crushed.
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ok, but should i talk to some more people about it? and should i have said something to him before he got engaged?
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Yes you should've said something before.
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But it's too late, now, so sorry.
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half of me understands that but the other half doesn't and thats what's hard about it.
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What's so hard? You loved him, but you waited to tell him, and now you can't have him. I'm not trying to be cruel or anything, but it's the truth.
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I have A.D.D. and learning delays and it takes me longer to understand things. so that might be part of it.
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what's A.D.D?
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attention deficit disorder.
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i'm gonna go to bed. it's 10:30 here. good night. and thanks.
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tell him or it will haunt you for years, but in a nice way like, you hope you'll find a man one day like him, or, i'm glad you've found happiness cos you deserve it etc.... don't just lay it on him cos it'll freak him out! i think i must have A.D.D as well, it would explain a lot.
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lol
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thank god that didn't offend you!
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lol...just so u know i wasn't planning on "laying on him"...LOL. idk why i would do that but i thought that was really funny. anyway...people have asked me that before. thats why i wasn't offended.
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laying it on him, not laying on him, that'd be far too forward!
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oh lol sorry i read it wrong...lol yea it would. well i g2g. i'm going to my aunt's house for christmas tomorrow and i want to get some sleep even though it's only 10:40pm. bye.
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Merry Christmas
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thanks. and just so u know where I am tomorrow is Monday. So it's an early Christmas...anyway.. goodnight.