but they just call me a crybaby, they are so dumb into seeing how much they have hurt me, there are times where i wish i could exchange my family. mybrother who is 3 years apart from me really doesnt like me all that much and is always out with his friends and my sisters who are 7 years apart from me really dont include me and my other 1 sister who is 14 years apart from me NEVER includes me she puts her friends b4 me which really hurts, how shuld i deal with this when i have no friends to talk to in school
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try making friends, I have almost no family whatsover, close to no friends, and only my boyfriend to talk to when things get tough, so its not like your going thru this alone, at least try to make one good friend so you can talk to him/her when things get to hard to handle
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perhaps it's easier for them to call you a cry baby than to face up to it. they have faults like anyone else, i've found it a huge help realising that they're not perfect, as well as their failure in not reaching my expectations is more to do with my expectations than their failure. can't see how this helps, but hope it does.
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I have a good number of siblings and i'm the oldest - we have fights but i realise that sometimes just not fighting them when you know it's a stupid pointless fight works better than getting all rouwed up about it - i use the line 'whatever' - it doesn't matter if they think they've won - you haven't gotten too upset about it and can move on. As to feeling alone - I'm sure you can make some friends and maybe trying to find things in common with your siblings would help - i know that sometimes your siblings will get on your nerves but they will always be there for you and will be appreciated as you get older
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Merry Christmas - God Bless
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Can you talk to your parents? I know that gets into the area where you don't want to feel like your getting them in trouble, but if you tell your parents, please don't punish or get mad at them, but what do I do? -- would they respect that? I can understand how you feel, my brother and sister were step, and they were 5-6 years older and treated me like garbage. At some point, you have to understand that it is out of their own wounds and ignorance that they are doing this, you are perfect as you are and not at fault. You are hurting anyway, tho, so talk to your parents, and ask them to help you find some groups you can join to meet new friends. Are you shy and introverted? Take some risks and meet some people at school, some people you feel you might have something in common with. You deserve some support and help with this.
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I know exactly what you are going thru! I have 2 brothers, Im the only girl and youngest. My brothers and their families plan all these things together, ie vacations, camping trips, parties. They never include me. They have eachother and I have no one. It is incredibly painful! I dont know what the answer is, but I know the pain.