Even though there are people much worse off than us, we choose to look at the people that seem to have it all?
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You said "people who seem to have it all" but I'd like to know based on whose definition? Why, society's, me thinks. Make up your own definition of what "having it all is." "Having it all" is different for each person. Only you know what that would mean for you. Plus, it's all about how you CHOOSE to look at something and what you CHOOSE to look at. If your water heater stops working do you focus on having to take freezing showers in the middle of the Winter or do you focus on the fact that you still have water. Hope you get where I'm going with this. Have a great time wherever you are!
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its human nature. we cant help but notice the things we dont have over the things we do.
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i totally agree.. please read my story about my children... www.myspace.com/missing_my_children things always seem sooooo bad in life at times... i have learned that they are tests for us to make mistakes and learn from them... however.. once you believe that you have learned... then why dont life become better?? i dont know how to help you in a way of saying anything... except heres a big hug for ya... hope things get better for you..
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lil-bit-shi - Briefly saw your profile on myspace. I am deeply sorry for your anguish. Have you tried writing to Oprah, Dr. Phil or the like to see if they can't help you in some way? I wish you all the best and a speedy resolution to bring your family back together!
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lil-bit-shi - Briefly saw your profile on myspace. I am deeply sorry for your anguish. Have you tried writing to Oprah, Dr. Phil or the like to see if they can't help you in some way? I wish you all the best and a speedy resolution to bring your family back together! yes.. i have written to many talk shows.. i have even written to the white house, senators ect.. i receive letters stating that they cant help.. so im on my own.. thats why im trying to get my word out to the world.. on my own..
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i totally agree.. please read my story about my children... www.myspace.com/missing_my_children things always seem sooooo bad in life at times... i have learned that they are tests for us to make mistakes and learn from them... however.. once you believe that you have learned... then why dont life become better?? i dont know how to help you in a way of saying anything... except heres a big hug for ya... hope things get better for you.. thanks for the hug, i hope your situation is resolved some time soon, thats not an easy situation to be in. I havent watched the video, but i will... thanks for all the good thoughts and ideas everyone has shared, i have alot of problems in my life, too many to list here, it was bad then got worse when my father died, in march it will be two years, but it still cuts like it was yesterday, he died of a heart attack right in my driveway, which makes it worse, maybe moving would help, but thats just running from the problem and i dont have the money to move anyway.... i try not to feel sorry for myself, but thats how it sounds some times, i hope time eases the pain, but it hasnt yet and has been the hardest thing i have gone through so far in my life.
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losing someone is the hardest thing ever.. but my advise to you is this.... dont sulk in the missing of them.... smile with the memories that you have with them... and believe that they are happy.. and are always with you ..
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Thats the dream... to have it all... but its hard for people to really truly be happy... at least thats what i think... we always want more
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because life is one big bully and likes to pick on some people