appanrelty i am one of those girls - my boyfriend and i broke up 3 months ago to the day after dating 3.5 years and im helpless. i still feel like i cant live without him i just love him so **** much and miss him every single minute of the day… i just dont want to be this girl
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when your alone after having company for a long time, your bound to feel bad. It'll pass eventually, you just need to remember that it didnt work out for a reason
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Fate and such doesn't care who and what type of girl love, everything happens for a reason. You still love him, yes of course because you're human and you're heart is as well. But you need to love yourself and hold yourself up. Maybe this is an opening to a world of closed doors that can open for you. It'll be alright, but right now the feeling of being helpless and hopeless is natural, its normal. Any one with a heart knows it can't heal fast, love. Thats what makes you STRONG.
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You'll get over him, with time.
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well i really hope i get strong pretty soon because things are looking pretty dark right now - hard to see me getting through it (sad as it is)... "any one with a heart knows it cant heal fast, love" - - - ironically i was the one who broke his heart first by mentioning taking a break from each other for a week - - then he broke my heart after the week ... but his heart seems to be healed - or he at least covers it very nicely
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I was in a relationship for 5 years and one day i told myself that this was to much for me. his jealous behavior and controlling ways. Every single day i would cry to the point that i had come into a deep depression. It took me 2 years to get over it and i am still affected by the decision i had made. BUT now i am married and have a little girl. God only gives us so much we can handle. If we were meant to be together, WE WOULD BE. Everything will get better with time, you just needs friends to help you through this milstone
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Its not your fault for wanting a break, that happens all the time. Something made you want/need that break--therefore, leading to this, its natural. Fate has other plans, you're not in the wrong, no one is.
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sigh i suppose - - hopefully fate and my heart will work together to figure something out SOON... 2 years seems like a very long time - - haha i wish my closeest friends werent all away at college at this time perhaps healing would be better
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Friends would definately help the healing process with their magical ways :) But for right now, since its just you, work on you. Find out your strengths right now, your weaknesses and ways you can improve them. Think of something you enjoy doing that you don't normally do,"run, write, sing, listen, buy a fat useless tuna eating house cat I don't know lol", something to keep your mind busy without stressing you.
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2 years is not long enough. my heart still hurts at times and it is bad for my husband . I have a special love for my ex and a great love and respect for my husband. I had nobody with me just my sister who was making the situation worse. she brought him to a mall i was at. it was bad.
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Definitely not the end. I'm going through some trouble with my girlfriend right now. I love her very much, but I feel as though she may want to be single now since she's never spent a long time being single. I'm facing the same problem. As repetitive as it sounds, you will get through it. Keep praying. He will give you strength. If you've never prayed before, try it. It can't hurt and you will enjoy the outcome:)
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just like Graceful Skull said you need to find an outlet. find something you are great at and every time your low, do it. and pray that is what i did and now i have a beautiful little girl. I prayed for peace and love.and he gave me something to love someone>
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2 years isnt long enough? sigh ooooh boy im in for a long ride... it makes me very hapy though that you all are here to talk because when i attempt to talk to my best friend about it - she really has no understanding of what i am going through 1) because she is 4 hours away 2) she has never had her heartbroken... I understand what you are saying about god giving you someone to love - i personally feel like i have SO much love to give - i'm a very caring and nurturing person and even still i just want him to be happy.... i help him out with issues that he is having and listen to him when he needs someone... i just just buy a dog (haha) it will also keep me distracted
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Whatever it may take, look at this situation for example--you see how you say "i personally feel like i have SO much love to give - i’m a very caring and nurturing person " That shows you feel yourself, how much of a great person you are. Thats what you need. You can still talk with him after all this is completed. Life isn't too short---It's too **** long love. There's so much time for a lot of things.
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Well that may help. I can't tell you what is best for you, because every situation is different and everybody is affected differently by their own situation. But you just need friends to vent with and support you. I really hope things get better for you. Do you have myspace? if you do look for me, Heather Osorio is Russellville Ar. you can talk to me anytime. i am kind of a loner lol. but things will get better
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I'm also on myspace, www.myspace.com/shellndamskull message me anytime my myspace is always on. Talk, ask, or just to flat out curse and rant lol No problem
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thank you very much ladies - i dont have myspace but perhaps i will get it just to look you up .... i hope things work out as well - not just for me - but for the both of you, in everything you do
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well myspace is kind of cool. if you do decide to open an account look me up. I will talk to you later. I baby is crying I hope ya'll have a good night
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Thank you, likewise. Maybe you should join myspace---good outlet ;)meet new people, chat, talk in forums. Make background and get music, personalize your whole being on a site.
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graceful what is your email or last name tried to add you as a friend
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Last name is Zaleski
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okay sent a friend request. I have to go now hope to see you on myspace Val26
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Right on--I accepted thank you, night :)
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Consider this, Maybe you dont miss HIM as much as you miss the feeling of being with someone. Its easy to look back and see the good times when you feel down.
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no i know i miss him... i loved him and missed when when we were together but i needed to pull myself out because i was pushing him away (i went through depression) and i needed to look at us from a different perspective - i never stopped loving him or missing him i just had wool pulled over my eyes for awhile... this whole break up really made me re evaluate my life and i needed that time so i could fully appreciate and love him like he deserves.... its just now i've lost him and i feel horrible because i know i love him more than life itself
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I’m sinking in my own dark sadness, There is a hole I cannot fill, You left me on the brink of madness, Was funny because for you I’d kill…. But that is nothing compared to your lies, The heartache I feel can only disguise, The way you fooled me into thinking I was safe, Your pestering ways, you made your mistake. I feel so lonely now but I know it will pass, For the years of regret are too many, at last, I can see a way out, a new beginning for me, You were the best, now the worst, but you set me free. I emptied my memories when we were together, Your smell and your laughter, and now when I ever, See couples together I don’t feel so sick, I don’t want to hurt then, this closure I pick. Each line that is written clears more than my head, The fog that is lifting, I don’t want to be dead, I want to continue living in this world full of joy, I know there’s a girl out there for this silly boy.