i’m 16 and i’m feeling a little down right now. do you have aim? i was hoping i could just talk to someone, even if you just want to flirt, i want someone to talk with and know i’m not so alone right now. please someone post their aim screename, even if you’re not homosexual, i just want a friend and someone there.
New: this discussuion is about coming out and talking about difficulties facing it, or finding out when anyone was homosexual or gay. thank you!
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If you just want someone to talk too then why do they have to be gay?
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What do you want to talk about? I can't post an e-mail or aim as it is against the TOS
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Just wish you the best....
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i'm NOT gay. but i'll be your friend...but i dont have an aim. and yeah. why If you just want someone to talk too then why do they have to be gay? why gay.
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They don't have to be, I'm sorry. I just also haven't talked to many homosexual people and I'm newly gay... so I just kind of thought that would be good. I also just want someone to talk to on AIM about everything. Is it against TOS? Could we just talk on here please, anyone? Read my posts for so long and see what I've been up with lately, it's just been a rough road and I feel a little out of it.
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I don't mind talking, about anything you want, but just be warned that this post might be closed, not because of anything you said but because the admins refer that we use the chat function for conversations
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*prefer, I meant, I can't spell lol
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:( Oh no. Okay, this post changed to just talking about... umm... hm.... Is anyone homosexual out there? And how did coming out and finding out affect you? I hope that keeps it from being closed, I didn't know it was against TOS. :( Crap. Please don't delete my post.
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Never had a desire to be gay...just like being a good old boy...but, I've never had anything against people who take that route...cool...the world we live in
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I'm bi. I came out to my friends when I was 15, still haven't told my family (I'm 19 now). It's difficult. Very difficult. But you'll be ok.
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eh..im a bi girl if that helps at all? and the people i told were good about it, but i dont tell everyone, only really if its relevant
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I read a bit of your other posts, it does seem like you are worrying alot. I would suggest ending it with your gf. You don't have to tell people why or anything like that, your sexuality is your personal buisness you don't have to announce it to the whld world if you don't want to. You say you are "newly gay" so maybe give it time for you to adjust to accepting who you are before you go through trying to make other accept it too, just teling close family and things like that for now.
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Well I never new that Vampy, I do now LOL
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lol, it never became part of our conversations! lol, now you do though, yay
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yeah true I suppose lol and yay haha
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And just know that you're never alone. It sounds like a meaningless platitude but it's true. Talk to a close friend about it. He/She'll understand, believe me. And it'll help.
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:) Very true, thanks everyone. It is really difficult, it puts butterflies in your tummy and it can be scary, I know the feeling too well right now.
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hehe, i seem to have a good sense of humour about this, lol. aaanyway, im off! gonna go to bed. anyone wanna talk to me shout me! ill answer tomorrow undoubtedly
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One piece of serious advice - do not jump in to any kind of sexual relationship with a man at your age. There are some weird emotions going round your head, so just step back and think about things, and don't do anything you'll regret.
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im a gay male around your age. im 15. my sn is xwthwthwtfx
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"how did coming out and finding out affect you?" i started realizing it in 6th grade, and came out in 8th grade. fortunately, my friends were all cool with it. however, some people did begin to talk. rumors went around, liking straight guys and not knowing what to do was/is terrible, people do cruel stuff. being out enabled more people to do cruel stuff to me. nothing physical, but like people would harrass me, pretend to be gay guys on the internet, make fun of me, but idk i guess i have it pretty good compared to most gay teens. i dont get that much harrassment, and none physical. freshman year i had some rocks thrown at me at a football game by the friends of this striaght guy who i had a crush on a year before. anyway, this year, my sophmore year i finally decided i dont care who knows about my orientation. now im completely out, everyone who knows who i am knows im gay. and this year has been a little harder than previous years. ive had two major attacks. one over myspace with a group of guys harrassing me, calling me names, threatening to beat me up and such. but they never actually did. then this girl and her friend got her brother to pretend to be 16 and go to a nearby highschool and he got me to fall for him then they crushed me. that was terrible. so yeah... thats what i have to say about what ive had to endure with coming out. im me if u wanna talk.
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Thank you so much for your help! :) I added you!
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my yahoo im is gcraysatl, and the same email. WOuld love to talk/chat with you anytime. I'm a 31 year old gay male. I didn't come out until I was 20 but I knew when I was your age