To make a very long story short, this girl were frineds got closer and closer, then fell in love, but her parents don’t want her to date til she’s 16. However, we are both 13, so you see the problem? it was too stressful for her, to have to lie to her parents like she did, so we brook-up beacause of it. this pccured in the summer. We didn’t talk at all during the summer, she didn’t want to, because her parents would aways ask who she was takling to, so anyway. When school did began, I flirted with her, and then she got mad at me, and avoided me ever since for a long time, because she doesn’t want to be my frined unless I don’t like her.
Every now and then, we talked on MSN, but she had the aditude, “I DON’T WANT TO TALK TO YOU RIGHT NOW, LOSER” and she was just down right nasty to me. THat wasn’t getting me anywhers. After a while, I tried avoided her too because I knew it would make her think I was over her, and after a while, she finally belived me (though I wasn’t) Then we became friends again, but on the day, after school, she asked me if I still liked her, I said I did (BIG MISTAKE!) then she started avoiding me again. Next, after a while, she wanted to talk to me and she said how sorry for the way she was treating me. I was so happy that day. But the next day, she was more mean and nasty then ever, I got so mad at her, I lost it, and treated her like how she treats me. Now she thinks I don’t like her, but solving that problem, I’ve made another! Now she hates me for how I was to her on MSN, so she still is not my frined, because now she thinks I’m “erogan and self-centered” And another thing, I asked her was she was nice to me one day, and nasty the next, she said ” I don’t know, it just seems to be the way I am around you.”
She is aways very sorry after she is nasty to me, I know she doesn’t mean it.
Also, the reason she said she doesn’t want to talk to me, is that our conversation never go anywere, which is ture, all we do is argue because we’re angry at each other, but neither of us mean that, and I am finally ready to be nice to her no matter what she is like to me, but sadly this is after I was nasty to her back, I don’t know what I can do, to get another change, I really need help with this. * NOTE: in school she icgnores, on MSN, she has me blocked, we never talk, however, my borther can give her a messege, or she can give me a messege though my brother, both of us, comunicate this way. I know I should just leave her, and treat her like the B**** she is, but thats not the answer I want, I’m not asking what I should do, I’m asking how do I repair the frinedship.
Any advice on where to start, how to conduct myself, what I should tell her? etc etc etc, anyway
thanks!
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is this girl bi-polar????
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no
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i know you don't wanna hear this but i think you need to move on all those up's and down's can't be good
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I think you should move on, let her repair the friendship if she wants. it is in her hands anyway. but move on, make new friends, and dont worry so much
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sorry, guy =( there is no friendship to repair. girls are just mean as hell sometimes. i would date her best friend if i were you.
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trsut me I've been trying I've even had a post asking how I do that, post/109602-i-have-a-question-is-this-possible#myLast I'm not yet over her, but I'm making progress, I really don't think that much of her anymore, and I don't quite so empty as I did a couple weeks ago, thanks for the advice everyone, your a great help! :)
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well, anymore oppinounS? even if you just re-state what other people have said, pleas reply
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seems like she's confused about you, remember you can't control how people react but you can control your own. decide who you want to be and if she wants in her own time she'll contact you.. but don't get upset if she doesn't. People can take a long time to figure out who the are.. just work on yourself and forget her for a while..
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I went through a long a painful thing just like this but a tad worse. I was the mean ex-girlfriend. My bf cheated on me, so i being the less mature one made his life hell. All he wanted was for me to forgive him and one day maybe get back together with him. Well, I never wanted to get back with him b/c of what he did, but i still had feelings for him. So I would go through phases where i would like him and hang out with him, then i wouldnt talk to him for months. I felt when we hung out I was liking him again and that wasn't okay, so i would push him away on purpose. Maybe your girl is getting it from her parents/ friends that she shouldn't like you again and she is trying on purpose not to like you, but sometimes slips up? I think that she prolly just needs time to figure it out. Me and my ex bf are good friends now (after quite some time), we wont ever be together again, but at least we can be civil and have a great friendship. Maybe yours will turn out better. There is still hope. I dont think she is crazy.
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She sounds a bit emotional, and confused. I think she definitley likes you, but its very stressful for her. You need to just act like a good frined, even if you want more. wait till shes 16.sorry dude
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i think that if she wanted to b with u, u'd b together long time ago. So i dont think being friends with her makes u feel better. anyway, if u want to have her back as a friend, just b nice to her (i dont mean being VERY nice, flirting and stuff, i mean just not being rude to her, fighting, talking of her badly and the like) Just try behave naturally, not like she's sth special. try to make her kinda trust u. like u dont like her like her, but just treat her like any other mate around. and remember: the slower u go, the further u'll get!
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alright start by telling her how sorry you are for treating her the way you did.then tell her (though you dont agree), that you dont like her in that way and you wanna be friends and hang out because shes cool or something try to convince her you just wanna be good friends and dont let arguments destroy a friendship even if shes wrong let them believe their right sometimes their speaking out of anger and when they cool off they come to you, and try not to touch the subject just apologize and change the subject to something funny ,never argue back things just get worse .if your ever in an argument just bite your lip and be polite , then say you dont want to argue try to avoid it as peacefully as possible.i hope this helps....... --Angel
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Everyone who replyed, thankyou very, very, so much. Me and my ex are friends again, and I owe it all to all of you, thanks :) *HUG*
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i'm soo happy for u! that's awesome u shared the good news! :)
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At that age, 13, she may be confused in what she wants in a relationship. Maybe she will know more of what she wants when she reaches 16. But there is no reason for you two to be friends.