and that we just need some space. We both agreed not to kiss or do anytihng with someone or go out atleast nto for a while but last night she kissed this one guy and im clueless about what to do. im done fighting with her and yelling waht do i do?
Answer:
If you broke up, there is no reason to why she can't do whatever she wants with somebody else, and visa versa. I'm sure she had a reason to do what she did even if she promised you she wouldn't. If the two of you ended the relationship because things started going sour, (fighting, argueing, distrust, etc.), I don't think the two of you should get back together at all. You seem like a nice person, give yourself space from her, move on, and find a nice new girl after you're past the "rebound" phase, if you go through rebounding that is.
Answer:
let it go. if you broke up and need space then theres really nothing you can do but let her do what she wants and you do you.
Answer:
be very carefull... if you actualy do still love her... and she actualy does still love you... and neither of you want to lose that,,, then you should try working out, talking out your problems, or the reasons why you feel the need for space... if the love is worth enough, then it should be worth enough to get over those problemes or be able to work through them for its sake... space will in the greatest likelyhood kill that love... on the other hand... if space is what is truly needed then the love cannot be something you try to hold onto.. if your going to have space you need to have it completely, and without the reliance on that love remaining... it will be harder to lose it now than later... and if it was meant to be then it will happen on its own... but trying to hold onto that love is not a goal becuase it is an involuntary emotion that left on its own will do whatever it wants... which in all likelyhood, without a relationship to keep it alive, will likely faid and die in time... but if it doesn't it doesn't... in essence don't buy a lotter ticket and start spending as if you've won already...
Answer:
I agree wtih Name with no face, my bf and i have had issues like that in the past. Where we need space from eachother, or he needs space from me. its though, but at the same time its someting that every relationship goes through. You two need your space, tell her how you feel about it and hope she responds accordingly. You can't force love.
Answer:
.......You can't force love. which is why it is extremely important to come to terms with the plausibility of losing it... don't be like the architects of the titanic and make too few life rafts in the belief that the ship is unsinkable...
Answer:
She doesn't love you if she kissed someone else. You need to move on, no use waiting for someone that isn't coming back to you.
Answer:
thats not true... if it were then love would be rather weak... people sometimes have feelings that they don't quite understand... and have many other inhibitions mixed in that confuse things even more... it doesn't mean that the feelings aren't there though...