to me for awhile through emails or something, preferably someone who will not judge me and who can give me some good advice. so if you are willing to listen to me and maybe help me out a little bit will you please give me your email and we’ll chat for just a little while?
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i am a good listener.. what seems to be the problem?
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thank you guys soo much for replying to my post, i really appreciate it. okay, i shall type out my story for you. just a second...
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i am fifteen and there is this guy that i love very much but he is twenty and because of the age difference my parents wont let me speak to him through phone calls or emails or anything. but of course, we speak anyway, and he told me that he loves me and that he would never feel this way about anyone else and he never wants to be close to anyone else.
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but my mother found his class ring in my bedroom and her and my father completely freaked out but i didnt tell them that we were communicating and as soon as they left the house i sent him an email and told him that they were talking about getting a restraining order for a couple years and that since we probably wouldnt be able to talk for a really long time he should just forget about me and we would meet up sometime in the future.
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well there is this other girl who is his age and he had mentioned her before and told me that he did like her as a little more than a friend but he wouldnt go out with her even though me and him couldnt see each other. but as it turned out, my parents did not get the restraining order, so i sent him an email two days after they found his ring and he replied to it saying that he is dating this other girl, but he still told me at the end of the email that he loves me and that he would call me that night.
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(email removed), im always looking for someone to be friends with =) but i would however, advise that you wait until your 18 to start a deep relationship with him. im the same age as u, and im pretty sure if there was a 20 year old girl that had the same feelings for me as i did for them, i wouldnt wanna wait either, but you probably should jsut for legal reasons
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email= jeepboy0708 at gmail.com
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i have known him for a year and we were really close friends until i got in some trouble for drinking and then they told me that i couldnt see him anymore, and he hasnt been in any past relationships
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Sweety, I see where your coming from. And if you really want my point of view, I will give it to you. Parents might not sometimes see how their children really feel towards people whome they may like. But they may be right in this situation. Their only doing this for your best interest. If you two do get caught in together, than your parents can have him pay a large penalty. If you really love him, then my advice would be dont get him into trouble. Because if you two continue to see eachother, than thats (sadly) what the outcome would be. I hope this doesn't sound harsh or mean in any-way. But I truely think your parents are only trying to protect you. How long have you known him. Have you met any of his past relationships? i totally agree.. you are 15... a 20 year old is seen as a petifile. he could go to jail for one.. for another.. even though you might not want to hear this.. you are still a child. you have a long life to live still... no matter how much you care about this guy.. i can promise you that he isnt the one that you are going to end up living the rest of your life with... guys will come and guys will go... trust me.. i have lived it.. and i have 2 daughters who are dating.. and my one daughter is 16... trust me when i say.. you will find someone else...
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yeah that is exactly what i expected to hear. ahahha
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i know that i could trust him with my life cause we have been through some crazy **** together but see we are not having sex and we are not drinking together or anything like that and we have only seen each other in person twice in the past six months cause of the trouble that we could get into if we were caught.
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yeah i just really dont want to wait three years and see this is a very small town and i know that we would run into each other again in the future but i am afraid that he will have just totally moved on.
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Molly, I agree with litbit. Also, he IS dating this other girl, I am sorry to say this but that should tell you something. Honey, actions speak louder than words. 5 years age difference in not much when you are 18. But it is a world of difference until that day. It's just the way it is. Time will go by faster than you realize. Let him go, let him grow up. 20 is a very young man. Right now the two of you are worlds apart. Honor your parents love and concern for you.
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Do you seriously feel like you could trust him with your life? Thats what I always have to ask myself in any situation. Good point, btw, lil_bit_shi thankyou
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well see he isnt dating her anymore because we started talking again and he kept telling me that he loves me and i dont know i am extremely confused.
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he is an adult hun... for one.. him trying to even be with a 15 year old is completely wrong on his part... and trust me.. i know that you probably dont even look that young.. as my 16 year old looks 20... however.. think about it.
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yes he is an adult but he is not "trying to be with me" we are just talking and we are not sexual at all so i dont think that it is wrong of him to talk to me and tell me he loves me. he is not a pedafile
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yeah well thanks for the help everyone. good night.