dont get me wrong, hes great, but hes not my type. hes in high school at a magnet program that he wants me to join. To start, my sisters best friends brother asked me out. i think theres been some matching here.
He invited me to the Lake Brantley play-offs. so i reluctantly went, i’ve never been to a foot ball game before. so here i am at this football game with BJ, and i cant help thinking about Tim, the guy i do like and who i belive likes me. i dont want to start anything with BJ. but i dont have the heart to tell him. he claims he just invited me because he wanted someone sane to talk to. and hes there telling me about himself and asking me questions and flirting with me and whatever. and i just felt uncomfortable. Now hes asking me to go to the movies with him sometime time this week because were off school. i just ignored him and started a conversation with his mum. what should i do?
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tell him you don't want to be anything more then friends...
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yeah there's no reason to keep the situation lingering any longer than it should. you like someone else, tell him if you do go, it's just as friends.
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i can't. i dont want to start anything, ill wait until i get something going with this other guy and try and get someone for bj. i know hes definetly interested in a few other girls cause when we were at the football game he wanted me to meet the cheerleader he knew, and the family friends daughter and wouldn't stop going on about them until i met them.
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Tell him you're willing to go, but that he has to know first that you're not interested in him in a date kind of way. You'll find out there and then if he was sincere when he said he just wanted someone sane to talk to. Or, if you don't want to go out with him even as friends, make that clear to him too. You would be miserable if you went and he would get the wrong idea: it's a lose-lose situation. He won't mind hearing he has no chance straight away half as much as he'd hate finding out after weeks or months that you're not really interested. Especially if you don't want him as a friend either: if you act friendly to someone you don't feel friendly to, you are making it harder for him to recognize real friendship the rest of his life. That may seem harsh, but I think a lot of people on help would have preferred to be told off right away to finding out later and feeling betrayed.
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be honest
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think of how you would feel if the roles were reversed.. would you want to be played along?? or would you want the truth?? think of his feelings and how you are going to hurt him in the long run if you keep playing a game with him...
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im just going to tell him i dont want to be more that friends. somehow.
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You do what your heart tells you to do. Hook up with the guy that you think about, you might as well be with he who is on your mind, not someone else that you wish was the other guy. You found the right guy, don't lose him. David
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im just going to tell him i dont want to be more that friends. somehow. being honest will be the best... goodluck hun.
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need all the luck i can get. but its not about luck. its about the strength to finish what shouldn't have ever started.
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break up
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i havent spoken to him in over a week, hopefully he got the message.
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Helping you hope...