tell me every detail from finding the right girl to getting to be friends keeping the relationship going.
I NEED TO KNOW!
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snexy
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I would recommend "buying" a wife from russia.
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How old are you? Talking to girls, small talk, flirting, going to partys and socialising.... Being confident with yourself and not trying to hard, or acting desperate. Usually what hapens is when you are not looking for a girl/boy friend you find one :)
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I'm 14. It's not that easy. see, I'm a computer nerd and I'm special ed (but not much any more. I'm mostly just hyper most of the time now), so It's hard not to go around without having someone tell the truth about my past. it sucks.
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oh, and i'm a guy.
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I'll give you some pointers for the official boy meets girl dating scenario. That's not how I ever got a boyfriend though, so be open to other options as well. You often find love when you least expect it. But as you are 14: You start by being yourself when you meet other people and when you hang out with people you know. Look around, is there any girl you feel attracted to? Find out what you have in common with her. Then get a bit closer to her: talk to her a few times about the subjects you have in common, join in an activity she is in et cetera. Now that she knows you, and you have talked, are you still interested in her? If so, make some small moves that can be interpreted as trying to get close, like drop something in front of her and pick it up, showing up at the same place as she is, wait for her at the bus stop et cetera. At this point, if she notices, she will let you know if she is not interested at all. If you don't get to speak to her again without her dragging a girlfriend in or leaving immediately, that's her saying she's not interested. If you don't get signs like this, ask her out. Don't ask her 'do you want to go out with me sometime' but ask her for a specific event or occasion, that you know she would like. Ideally, this is the kind of occasion where the two of you can have some time together, but you aren't forced to interact all the time, like a movie or a concert. It will make it easier for her to accept: if it turns out you're not the guy for her she'll still have a great time. Hopefully, she'll like the date and you can ask her out again. Once you are in that stadium, ask more advice again or just go by your instincts.
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But then that is a good thing really about people knowing your past as it means the girl that you find, and you will find one, will like you for who you are :)
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how many girls think dating a nerd and a ex-sped is ok?
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I don't know, but it is not al that bad, I mean there is someone for everyone you just don't know when or where it will hapen, and if you keep putting yourself down like that how do you expect others to see the good in you. Try and find the posatives about yourself rather than pointing out al the things you don't like about who you are.
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um...I'm a computer genius?
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is that what you mean?
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yes :D See thinking on th brighterside, you need to like who you are before you can expect someone else to like you too.
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Yes, you are a bright young man with talents in computers. Plus, you have experienced that life isn't always easy, so you are probably more mature than others your age. Plus, you've overcome certain challenges to get where you are now, that shows both character and ability. Plus, you are not the plain average joe girls meet every day!
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But that is so...so nerdy! I mean, you don't see a guy walk up... ah, never mind. no more metaphors for me.
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There are girl-nerds too you know. I should know, I was one myself!
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WAS one? uh oh...
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just kidding!
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are you still there?
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Yeah, I'm still here. I was reading another post, not offended or anything. I think I'm no longer a nerd, mostly because I have friends that are so much more nerdy than me that I am completely popular and mainstream compared to them. I'm also considered somewhat of a loser, nerd-wise, to have chosen a social study like political science instead of something that at least involves imaginary numbers..
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so how do i choose, if that's even possable.
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hello?
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this is how much you guys are helping me. sorry, but it's kinda true. http://www.homestarrunner.com/sbemail164.html
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You really live in Plover, dylan? I've an aunt that lives there. Not that that helps you much, but it does give me some teensy insight into your situation. Going to school at SPASH sucks. In point of fact, going to school in the entire Stevens Point district sucks because it's absurdly over-crowed. Truth be told, Plover needs it's own high school, but that's neither here nor there. Since time immemorial it seems that the rural students (country kids) and urban students (city kids) simply just do not get along - ever. Moreover, when I went to PJ's I noticed that the youth of Stevens Point really likes to pigeon hole you into "this group" or "that group". And if you don't fit? Too bad. We don't have a "doesn't fit" group, so you'd better get good at making yourself invisible. All this means that it's kind of hard to get a girlfriend with an unfortunate social stigma hanging over your head. On the plus side, you're a computer geek, which means you've got lots of upside potential down the road. In 3 years, you'll be checking out colleges, and UW system is a fine one to enter. Find yourself a medium to large sized campus, move into the dorms, and you'll have the the chance to start over again, carte blanche. No one will know that you were once special ed, or spent most of your Friday nights playing WoW in your basement. You can be whom ever you want to be, and that, I find, is more often a happy thought. For now, just try your best to have fun in high school and don't concentrate on the things you don't have. In retrospect, the easiest way to get through the marsh is simply to let the water run off of you. Honestly, if you can establish yourself as a laid back doesn't get too involved sort of person, some girls might find that mysterious and even intriguing. In point of fact, lots of girls seem to prefer craving attention than having it thrust upon them. So stay cool and let your high school years just come to you.
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yeah, i never really set the "where i live" thing...
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Ah ok. Well disregard the location specific stuff and just read over the rest.
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sorry, but it's for my safty. ya know, bad people...like michele jackson...
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Yeah well having your real handle as your username probably isn't helping that case either. I'm just sayin'
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Hey, i'm too young to be found on search engines, ok?
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your not looking me up now, are you?
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It is a lot more likely that one could track you down via your actual name than by a semi-arbitrary and highly generalized location on a discussion forum. In any event, you can disable your location under user preferences, which I suggest you do if you feel that it's a problem. As it is, I believe that here simply logs your IP address and uses the server address that it's tied to to discern your location. And no, I couldn't care less where you live. I only noticed because I am familiar with the area.
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phew..that's a relief.. anyway, can you help me out more with the "i need a girlfriend" matter?
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i gotta go to bed soon...
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good night!