. please help me get my ex back…. he’s still so hurt from the way i treated him but i love im so much and miss him…. how can i get him to forgive me?
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sometimes, if you screwed up, you screwed up. if you really are sorry, tell him that. find something from your heart to make him believe that you are. if it all works out... please don't do it again. love him. be there for him. don't be needy. tell him you miss him. don't get desperate because that'll make you look bad in his eyes. but be honest. tell the truth. and learn from your mistakes.
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Only way you can do that is by talking to him... Tell him that your sorry.
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N MAKE IT UP 2 HIM
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.... sigh i've told him how sorry i am how i regret it and if i could change anything in the world it would be that.... i told him face to face that i love im and we talked for about 2 hours.... and he's thinking about getting back together but he says "im still bitter about the whole thing and like being single because i dont have to worry about making anyone upset... why would i go back to something that hurt me so much?"..... i asked him not to forget what i did but to forgive me.... and he is really thinking about it... but it sounds like i hurt him too much.... :( i would love to make it up to him believe me i would do anything to maake it up to him.... its why i asked for another chance....
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if you really are sorry then go PICK some wildflowers and then write your feelings down and be completly honest...your prolly thinking guys dont like flowers??? but i think that its still totally nice and would make him feel wanted
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do something for him, tell ur sorry from the bottom of ur heart.be optimistic,be hearty,dont always cry in front of him.
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i told him im sorry from the bottom of my heart and he told me not to appologize to it - he didnt need it... and i said that i wanted to appologize.... dont worry i didnt cry in front of him.... any ideas of what i can do for him?
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he has every right to feel the way he does, you can't change the past. first and foremost, make sure that when you say ur sorries, u will NEVER do it again, make sure to work on yourself first and that you've done changes on yourself, otherwise, it will never work. keep trying and trying until u truly feel that you've done everything you can...get rid of the bitchyness/attitude/selfishness..etc. it's not necessary even when you're upset at him or feel crummy.be respectful/mature when there are missuderstandings, last thing u want is making things worst, remember that when you guys are arguing, the problem is the situation and not him, u want to fix the situation not him, avoid blaming but be more open about how it made you feel and how you would want things different..etc. don't say "you made me cry, you did this, you said that..etc." but more like "I feel like, I'm hurt because,etc." worst feeling is regretting that you didn't try your all.
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believe me i dont blame him when we fight - i am not normally a big *****... i went through a depression and pushed him away from me.... i have been seeing a therapist and working on myself for 3 months now.... i know i would never become that person again....
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almost the same thing happened to me!! i also dont know what to do.. but advice to you. that i kind of ****** up on is.. if you want to get close him again.. dont force it. dont call him too much.. dont leave too many messages becuase u might seem desperate. and thats bad because you should just... be cool with it. and go with the flow for now.. what i did wrong was i called him too many times and left him too many messages. and it was probably looking too obsessive. so i kinda of took a break from that.. but he moved on to another girl and went out with her and has loved her recently.. so i dont think i have much of a chance im not surei hope i do just use my advice and i hope its helpful!! and if you want to talk more just reply and maybe we can talk more on msn about things =) dont worry everything will be alright! by the way the e-mail here is not my real e-mail. because i dont want random people adding me. just ask me for it. :)
